Your periodic reminder that "just asking questions" in someone's replies doesn't make you Aristotle. It makes you a wanker.
There's a LOT of it going around right now.
There's a LOT of it going around right now.
Don't be a Sea Lion lads. It's fucking toxic behaviour. 
No harm in GENUINE questions. But things to think about:
1) is this about THEIR experience, not mine?
2) Will answering add to THEIR emotional labour, not mine?
3) Am I lazily asking them to be my Google?
4) Would they have to be stupid to not have already thought about this?
1) is this about THEIR experience, not mine?
2) Will answering add to THEIR emotional labour, not mine?
3) Am I lazily asking them to be my Google?
4) Would they have to be stupid to not have already thought about this?
Also, obviously:
5) Am I just being an irritating wanker?
The people who SHOULD ask that last one never will do, obviously.
But you can always go for:
5b) Will it make me LOOK like one of those guys who is an irritating wanker?
Because they have the same answer.
5) Am I just being an irritating wanker?
The people who SHOULD ask that last one never will do, obviously.
But you can always go for:
5b) Will it make me LOOK like one of those guys who is an irritating wanker?
Because they have the same answer.
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