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11 Mar, 12 tweets, 3 min read
#LockdownVoices

"My husband, under immense pressure trying to keep 200 employees in work, suffered a stroke... our child became suicidal as a result..."

"Throughout lockdown my husband, who heads a family business, has been under immense pressure in...

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"...trying to keep all his 200 or so employees in work, whilst keeping the business afloat in spite of decreased sales...

...and dealing with the impact of Covid measures on staff working from home and social distancing in the warehouse for key workers...
"This reached a peak around Christmas with the added impact of Brexit causing problems with imports and exports - an ongoing issue.

In early January, a week into Lockdown 3, my husband suffered a mild stroke which rendered him unable to work for around a month...
"This has had huge knock-on effects both at work and at home.

We have four teenage kids; one of them, already mentally suffering from lockdowns, reacted very badly to my husband's sudden illness, and became suicidal.

We tried to get help through the NHS but...
"...it was impossible to get NHS counselling because demand for kids' mental health services was so high.

We are now paying for a private counsellor who is only available over Zoom, which is far from ideal with six of us in the house, but is our only option...
"On Tuesday all the kids were back in school but on Wednesday, due to one person testing positive in our suicidal child's year, the entire year was sent home.

Again, he has reacted terribly badly and we are extremely concerned for his safety...
"And my husband's health continues to be very poor both physically + mentally because of the stress he is under.

The other kids are trying so hard to stay positive and get through this but it is devastating to see them beginning to unravel, + yet, there is very little I can do!
"The solution is quite obviously to bring back the 'old normal' immediately:

This would save the business, take pressure off my husband, let my child have face-to-face therapy, and enable all the kids to have vital social interaction with their teenage friends rather than...
"...to have everything brewing in a toxic boiling pot.

On the bright side, the return to school - though interrupted - has already brought considerable relief to us all.

Which just shows, to me, the importance of lifting lockdown."
For every story shared with us like this, we know there must be many thousands more like it.

The UK govt and their advisers on SAGE give the impression 'a bit more lockdown' is no big deal. Moving the goalposts seems to be no big deal, either.

The truth is quite the opposite...
Every day #lockdown goes on, more livelihoods are lost.

Every day it goes on, stress, depression and other mental health problems go through the roof...

...and turn into strokes, heart attacks and suicide attempts.

Are we protecting the NHS, or creating a timebomb for it?
#EnoughIsEnough With 20m+ vaccinated, whatever happens this "snail's pace" move out of lockdown MUST also be our last.

Not least as 30 credible scientific papers now find lockdowns do little or nothing to stop the spread of coronavirus, despite the harms:
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12 Mar
#LockdownVoices

"I am one of the 3 million left out of all government support, they have told me I must close my business and I am entitled to nothing, this has left me worrying about the future, will they do this again?

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"How can they do this to someone who has been a net contributor/higher rate tax payer into the system and never claimed a penny?

The fact that a government can do this with very little opposition is frightening, how would most of the population have coped in my position?
"How would they feel if they were left out?

We are certainly not all in this together.

Then they have the cheek to tell people to retrain, when all learning is virtual, how many years does that take...
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9 Mar
#LockdownVoices

"Since early last year we’ve all been bombarded with negative fear-mongering and propaganda from nearly every media platform, and more concerningly, from our own Govt.

How can such a psychological assault even be legal?

What must this be doing to our children?
"It is utterly grotesque!

None of the messaging has been supportive, positive or hopeful.

It is a constant diet of doom and gloom with no hope in sight.

I must say it feels very much by design and very sinister!

Why would a Conservative Govt want to scare the public so much?
"One must conclude, it is done to achieve compliance and acceptance of every freedom and liberty stripped from us.

It is disgraceful.

When news of a virus started to reach us, it never crossed my mind that the UK would entertain such a draconian idea as a national lockdown...
Read 12 tweets
8 Mar
#LockdownVoices

"It was the first time in about 10 years that I have cried for a patient..."

"This is only partly my story, it belongs to an elderly lady really.

I looked after a 93 year old lady in my resus room this year on Boxing Day. Sadly, the main blood vessel...
"...in her abdomen was leaking.

Whilst taking a history, we talked about how she had felt yesterday.

She told me she had felt physically okay but very sad and angry...
"It was the first Christmas Day she could remember that she hadn’t been allowed to see her grandchildren or go to church.

She cried, I said that I was sorry.

She died about an hour later...
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5 Mar
#LockdownVoices

"Dad was basically told to put up with it... when finally sent for tests his cancer markers were off the scale and he was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer..."

"A week before lockdown 1 in March 2020, my 80 year old Mum who had Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma...
"...rang for an ambulance as she was getting weaker.
NINE hours later after several phone calls to hospital, an ambulance arrived.

They didn't want to take her in via A&E because of Covid + it took more calls to the hospital before they agreed to admit her directly to a ward...
"She died 36 hours later.

There were only seven of us at her cremation, not allowed to sit near each other or hug.

My Dad, also 80 years but didn't live with Mum, had been in pain for a nearly a year before the first lockdown and he was basically told to put up with it...
Read 10 tweets
3 Mar
#LockdownVoices

"I worry our lives will never be the same… I fear for the future of my children in this draconian existence we seem to be ‘living’ at the moment…"

"As a new business, I was without funding for 11 months.

Only now this month have I received £2000...
"I’ve developed anxiety because of the financial strain we’ve been under as family.

I’m anxious about the current response to Covid, not actually catching it.

I worry that our lives will never be the same, and it keeps me up at night...
"My two children have missed 9 months of school and they’re emotional, irritable and moody; they’re only 7 and 4.

It breaks my heart.

I fear for their futures in this draconian existence we seem to be ‘living’ at the moment...
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27 Feb
#LockdownVoices

"I’ve cared for a non-verbal man with learning disabilities for 28 years. His life was full, he was fun, all I see now is a broken man…"

"I locked down on 11 March 2020, shielding him from the virus. I was unable to wear a mask as advised, it scared him...
"...the man blows raspberries, unable to take him out we stayed at home.

He was a lively fella who enjoyed day centre activities, family, friends, holidays and all motorsports, and lots of fun, but as weeks went by I noticed a change...
"His daily routine trashed, not wanting to come out of his room, weeks went by and his mood was low, he would have a shower and back to bed, lunch was at a table in his room, I felt helpless...
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