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𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐤𝐡𝐢 🍁

@Pengpappi_xo

14 Mar

When a husband is rude, abusive and bad tempered: the wife is told to have sabr and reminded what a good muslim wife does.
But when a wife is rude and bad tempered: the husband is told to find a more pious wife, she is told women don't act this way and her character slandered.

Why don't anyone give this advise instead? 👇

It is reported that a man came to 'Umar ibn Al-Khattab (radhiAllahu anhu) to complain about his wife's ill-temper.

While he was waiting for 'Umar to come out of his house,

he heard 'Umar's wife scolding him & 'Umar quietly listening to her, and not answering her back.

The man turned around and started walking away, muttering to himself: "If that is the case with 'Umar, the leader of the believers, who is famous for his uprighteness and toughness,

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𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐤𝐡𝐢 🍁

@Pengpappi_xo

14 Mar

So what exactly is ad-Dayooth?

Ad-Dayooth is a man who does not have any element of protective jealousy for the women around him, namely - his mother, wife, daughters or sisters.

He is the one who permits the women he is responsible over to do the following:

( A THREAD )

1. Engage in haram relationships with other men or even worse, fornicate

2. Show off her beauty and display it in front of strange men

3. Put up her pictures on social media platforms (FB, Instagram, Twitter…) allowing thousands of men to fix their glaze on her face and body.

3. Apply perfume and put on make-up when going out

4. Leave the house wearing tight and attractive clothing, thereby stimulating men's desire

5. Leave the house without wearing hijab

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𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐤𝐡𝐢 🍁

@Pengpappi_xo

12 Mar

How to develop manners in your child?
1. Greet your child with hugs, salams and kisses.
2. Never speak ill of your relatives, in-laws and friends. Your child listens and emulates.

3. Visit your parents and take your child with you. The more the children see you taking care of your parents, the higher the probability they’ll take care of you.
4. Tell good bedtime stories. Well told stories are memorable and inspiring.

5. Read one hadith a day. This builds character and strengths bonds.
6. Wear presentable cloths when at home. Your child needs to see that being tidy and clean is not only when going out.

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𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐤𝐡𝐢 🍁

@Pengpappi_xo

3 Mar

This is for unmarried women.🥰

Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem.

Do not rush into marriage because you are not in a race. Do not insist on what is not yet for you.

All people are blessed by Allah with a partner, either in this life or in the Hereafter.

Love yourself first and do the things you have never done with your parents and friends. Do things that can make you a better person.

Make the most of the time when you are single. Because you can't do that when you are already married.

Your priority will be your spouse and your children.

I remember what my mom and dad said; to prioritize my studies and take care of them and my siblings. And bond with my friends. Because when I get married I can no longer do that.

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𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐤𝐡𝐢 🍁

@Pengpappi_xo

3 Feb

Would you like to memorize the Quran but didn't know how to start?
Advice on memorising the Qur'an...

1. Sincere intention

2. Patience

3. Must read Qur'an often (able to recite correctly without stuttering, making several mistakes in a page)

4. Good teacher (can even be a friend, as long as they are motivational & have good Tajweed)

|| 2 YEAR PROGRAMME ||
1 hour a day, 6 days a week
Time for memorisation:
Summer - After Fajr
Winter - Before Fajr (pray 2 raka'ah to make it easier)

1 page a day:
* Read a line for 4 minutes (use stopwatch) until completing the page
4 MINS x 15 LINES = 1 HOUR
This is the 'first memorisation' (short-term memory) and if a person forgets they shouldn't feel demoralised
* After Zuhr: Read same page 10 times

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𝐇𝐚𝐥𝐚𝐥 𝐀𝐤𝐡𝐢 🍁

@Pengpappi_xo

26 Jan

I am trying to revisit seerah half hour a day and I wanted to share something that makes me bawl like a baby. Here is the story of Abu Bakr (رضي الله عنه | May Allah be pleased with him) and how he redefined what it means to be a true Friend 😇

I am going to present to you a scene after fath' Makkah [Conquest of Makkah]

During the conquest of Makkah at the entrance of the prophet ﷺ, thousands of people were coming to him to embrace Islam.

And amongst those thousands is Abu Bakr (رضي الله عنه | May Allah be pleased with him). He comes with his father Abu Quhafa - an old man with a white beard and white hair, imagine the old man how he’s walking slowly with a limp and he’s walking to the prophet ﷺ.

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