I recently asked, what would you disagree with your former self on? When I go through my old writings there's a clear shift in how I think about ideological change. I used to think making the argument was the most important thing. Now I don't.
I mean, 2015/2016 Iyad thought that if you make the right arguments, people will change their minds. He was involved in such projects as @IslamandLiberty, wanting to do just that. He wanted his ideas to compete for the mainstream. He was looking for ideological change.
Meanwhile 2021 Iyad disagrees on several levels (let me see if I can express this clearly). I mean, I understand that my 5-years-younger self saw an ideological problem and wanted it solved. That, I agree with. But I no longer think that making arguments solves that problem.
Rather, I now see that the real problem to solve is why people come by their ideas in the first place. Think of it this way - we know that our physical condition affects our emotional mood and our emotional mood affects our ideas. Now take this and apply it to societies
I now see that trying to endlessly argue with people who are forced into a certain lived reality is futile, even cruel. Their lived realities - economic, social, etc - are ultimately a result of political repression. Dictatorship is morally responsible for all these ideas.
This isn't to say that some people won't transcend their present lived realities. Some will. It's extraordinary when people transcend their lived realities but it's ordinary when they don't. You do not build a mainstream based upon the extraordinary but the ordinary.
I was 33 when the 2011 uprisings started. Before them, our societies were in a state of intellectual stagnation. Within weeks, we were in an actual spring. Everything was being questioned. It's like our intellectual history was on pause and someone pressed the play button.
Nothing in my lifetime - no government program or UN initiative or great philosopher - caused as big a movement in the Arab mind as the Arab Spring. Once free to speak and question, many of us reached similar conclusions. We had intellectual agency. No thought leaders needed.
Maybe I'm talking too much, but I hope I expressed what I want to say. I no longer believe that what's blocking ideological change is a lack of the "right" ideas. It's the lack of political freedom. Even the current social norms are a consequence of a lack of political freedom.
But here's another thing I don't get any more about my 5-years-younger self. Why are you so eager for your ideas to win over the mainstream, anyway? I no longer care about that. I mean yes, I have some ideas and will be putting them out as long as I'm around (that's what I do)...
But, I'm no longer attached to my ideas. I want them to be a few flowers in a garden of a million flowers. I don't want to put out ideas that save the world, but I do want to be an agent in securing people's freedom so they do the rest of the ideological work themselves.
Maybe along the way I'll put out a few decent ideas that another generation can build upon to create something truly great. But for that to happen, they need the freedom to think, build, create. We don't have to be guardians over their future, we just have to ensure they have one
We're putting this thinking into our new strategy. We'll still be putting out lots of content, but we'll also be focusing on community building, trauma & healing, art & culture, storytelling, etc. Things change when you start to think of what can be done in 20 years, not 2 or 3.
I mean, I hope I get 20 years. But if I don't, it's gonna be okay anyway. History doesn't ride on any one person or team or movement. Everything that we'll achieve will be achieved with us or without us. It would just be a deep honor if we play a role in birthing a new world.
Just realized that around 10 years ago, in March 2011, I started the #ArabTyrantManual hashtag. What a decade. Looking forward to the next two.
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My prediction for the UK is that the full impact of Brexit is still years in the future and that it'll be a decade or more before a supermajority of UK citizens realize just how thoroughly they fucked themselves over, as the country recedes on just about all competitive markers.
Will that be the end? No. We're just too trained to look at a single data point - the present - and to paint the future in the same color. But history is not linear. When one generation fucks itself over, several next generations commit to correcting in the opposite direction.
History is not linear. Consider how WW1 + 2 led to the EU; the Great Depression led to social security; you can fill 100 tweets with examples. Some of the places on earth today with the highest religious tolerance were the very places were most blood was spilled in religious wars
Click on the enclosed tweet and see just how many outright racists from across the globe is taking this move by Denmark as validation for their racism. Genuine question: Why is Denmark so racist?
This is happening in the same week as this. Denmark stripping Syrian refugees of their residence permits and seeking to deport them back to Syria, which even the Danish embassy in Syria says is not safe.
Also this. Second attack on random Muslim women in Denmark which is so obviously racially motivated, but the authorities refuse to acknowledge that it's racially motivated.
There are things that we intensely dread until we get there, and realize they're not to be feared but aspired to and embraced. Realizing that you're not special, not essential and not particularly important is one of those things. Your ego really doesn't want it, but it's bliss.
You're not special because you're just another human being with an ego. You're not essential because we all share the same essence and basic condition, we just get different and unique viewports to life. In a certain way, I am you and you are me, just in different egos.
You're not important because everything you can accomplish will be accomplished with you or without you. Nothing really rides on you, and sooner or later you'll be gone and you'll be a distant memory. If you stand up for something, 100% of the honor (or dishonor) is on your side.
The epistemic structures in which we are immersed color everything that we see and everything we build. Patriarchy is a social control system that is replicated in the political realm. They share an epistemology. Consider the following
Patriarchy: Unconditional obedience to the husband
Authoritarianism: Unconditional obedience to the ruler
Those most deeply traumatized do not feel particularly angry. When you lack self love, you do not feel that your treatment is wrong; you've accepted it as normal. You may even help impose the norm on others. Those who do not see their own dignity, do not see that of others.
As people heal from trauma, they enter a phase where they're much angrier. It's for the same reason. Once you start to see that you matter, you start to get angry at how the world has been treating you, and at how "normal" it all is. The rage burns, but it's a sign of healing.
If you find yourself in that phase, do not turn away from the anger. Do not get addicted to the anger either, and do not let it become part of your personality. Where there's anger there's a wound that deserves your attention. Dive into the wound, salvation lies within.
A note to the spiritual seeker: "No pain, no gain" applies to spirituality too. Where did you get this idea that the path is bliss and delight all the way, or that your soul can grow without your heart breaking?
You don't have to take the path if you don't want to. But realize that it's not a joyride. You are climbing a mountain, one that only gets steeper as you get higher up. It doesn't get easier from here.
The path is not outward, but inward. Its entrance is through your own wounds. May they be windows to the vastness of your soul, not whirlpools collapsing you into your own ego.