One of the murdered women was the owner of the spa and had worked herself up from being a nail tech. She was a licensed massage therapist. You can see it as the "American Dream" if you want. She worked hard and made good. It ended with an American murder.
The reason the narrative now is all about sex is that Asian women have been sexualized by the West for hundreds of years. Racism against Asian women almost always has a sexualized component - official sanction of this goes all the way back to the Page Act in 1875.
The Page Act closed the formerly open US borders and barred Chinese women from entering the country on the basis that we were basically all prostitutes.
We are not submissive flowers or dragon ladies or here for your sexual gratification. We encompass the full spectrum of sexuality and asexuality and dominance and submission.
We're human.
* And for the record, sex workers are people and deserve to live and work without fear for their personal safety. Even if any of the women do turn out to have been sex workers, they still didn't deserve to die.
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Here's the thing: This kind of violence and hatred isn't new.
It's escalated (exponentially) thanks to conversatives blaming China for COVID. But American violence against people who look like me has been happening for 200 years.
This country never wanted us. The very first immigration ban was put in place because the US didn't want Chinese people. The entire concept of "legal" vs. "illegal" immigration exists because of American xenophobia toward us.
Anti-miscegenation laws listed us specifically.
The US had laws specifically prohibiting Asians from becoming citizens. And laws specifically barring us from owning property. The latest one was passed in 1943, and many of them were not stuck down until the 1950s.
Trump's officially nominated Amy Coney Barrett to the Supreme Court.
Amy Coney Barrett was part of the legal team that helped George W. Bush win his recount battle in Florida in 2000.
That election was decided by 537 votes. In a state where perhaps 12,000 voters were incorrectly removed from the rolls (no one knows the exact number).
But here's the thing: It may only take 3.5% of a population to topple a dictator. And we're not quite there yet, though we've gone a long way down that path.
Call your reps & never stop making a stink even when the current admin lives down to your already low expectations - people who study autocrats say that autocrats take and keep power bc feckless bureaucrats will support whoever seems to have the upper hand.
Make it look like the people have the other hand. Remind them that they will be held accountable.
Vote like your life and the lives of people you care about are on the line, because they are.
Remember the Spider-Man movie where Mary Jane (Kirsten Dunst) wore a cheongsam (a tight-fitting Chinese dress with a high collar)? Nicole Kidman wore one to an event. So has Emma Watson, Uma Thurman, & an unending list of celebs.
So it should be the height of cool, right? Fashionable, & worn by professionally fashionable people.
I think cheongsams are gorgeous. But I can't wear one without being seen as foreign and Other. I don't get cool, fashionable points.
(Though I might get sexy points related to being "exotic," which I don't always want to deal with.)
So I almost never get to wear a beautiful style of dress that is distinctively Chinese, because there are layers of overt and covert racism that tend to surface when I do.
We launched wars we haven't extricated ourselves from. Still. 19 years later. I know he mentions war later in the thread, but the sentiment for that, even among individuals, came quickly & not out of calm.
The collective post-disaster-together feeling didn't last long.