New essay: the feminist Dr. Nawal El Saadawi died last Sunday at the age of 89. I wrote about the times I met her, what I learned, and the impact of her work.
Since Nawal died, I've spoken to media outlets in Nigeria, South Africa, the UK and the US and I joined six other feminists from our region to speak with a Lebanese feminist about her and pay our tributes. Here are the links I have: This is @nprweekendnpr.org/2021/03/27/981…
I publish my weekly essays for FEMINIST GIANT on Sunday. Here are the past month's:
"They said, ‘You are a savage and dangerous woman.'
I am speaking the truth. And the truth is savage and dangerous," Nawal El Saadawi, the Egyptian feminist who died last week.
"The world is full of sexually frustrated women who are are taught, and obey, that they must wait until they are married (to a man) to have sex, and yet I’m unaware of any massacres committed by those women." On the Atlanta terrorist
Feminism is not: supporting a woman simply because she is a woman, especially when her vote hurts mostly Black, Indigenous and women of colour. On #BespokeFeminism, which is tailored to perfectly fit just the individual wearing it.
The 1st time I "met" Nawal, she was on a documentary film on our TV set in London in 1980: an Egyptian woman with bright white hair who owned her power and spoke with absolute confidence in her words. An Egyptian man criticised her, complaining she was ruining Egypt’s reputation.
Nine years ago exactly, she found me when I most needed to be found. It was my first trip after the casts on my arms had come off. I’d vowed I’d gift myself tattoos after my bones healed but I didn’t know of what. And then during a lecture tour of Italy, Sekhmet found me in Turin
#Egypt: 2 weeks ago, a woman died after “falling” from her 6th floor balcony after her landlord & 2 other men attacked her for having a man in her apartment.
The woman thrown out a 12th floor window in #Kenya landed on a 9th floor balcony, suffered serious pelvic injuries and was hospitalized. And victim blamed as the above article explains.
Wherever we are, patriarchy enables & protects cis men's ownership & violence over our bodies
On the woman thrown out of a 12th floor window and the DJs who mocked and victim-blamed her
"Revolution begins with the self, in the self...It may be lonely. Certainly painful. It’ll take time. We’ve got time...We’d better take the time to fashion revolutionary selves, revolutionary lives, revolutionary relationships.," oni Cade Bambara (March 25, 1939-Dec. 9, 1995)
This has made my day. This is one of my favorite pictures of me and this misogynist shit is using it to show that “All feminists turn ugly once they cross 30s 40s. The bitterness start showing.” May I always be ugly to the patriarchy and its misogynist shits (📷 @rerutled)
“wow, this proves the theory that all hardcore feminists are hideous to look at.”
May I always be hideous to the patriarchy and its misogynist shits
Here’s a picture of me and Salma Hayek together in London in 2013. She is of Lebanese descent and my tattoo is Arabic calligraphy