I absolutely love when I get asked to give any kind of interview, be part of any panel, or anything that has to do with "success" and they ask me to talk about where I come from/all I've dealt with, instead of telling me to only do the "this is all I've accomplished" BS.
I don't even like the word success, let alone talk about myself in those terms.
If you're asking me to talk, don't treat me like a brand. I'm gonna talk about being homeless, and raped, and beaten, and treated like trash by academia.
You're getting who I really am, or nothing.
My job isn't to make you comfortable, I came from all of that.
Stop trying to sell the idea that only smiley, and peppy, well-off privileged women can become role models.
There are TONS of women out there who are inspirational as hell, who don't have book deals, or shows, or get interviews, who don't have social media, or a huge following.
None of that stuff means success to me, it grants you the ability to reach more people. That's all.
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Women were FORBIDDEN to enter the labs of the Institute of Chemistry and Biochemistry (cause of hair) and because of this, in 1907 Lise and Hahn set up a lab in some carpenter's room.
Lise Meitner DEVELOPED a new way to analyze radioactive processes
2/ No one is saying that Hahn wasn't important, but Meitner *literally* had to explain to him what Einstein meant when talking about photons, quanta, and how it would help the understanding of waves.
Lise Meitner was incredible.
3/ Meitner provided the interpretations for nuclear fission to be possible, but it became known as Hahn's discovery BECAUSE he was advised to disassociate from Meitner due to Nazi Germany and the fact that she was both a woman and Jewish.
- People:
"Be a strong woman"
"Speak up"
"Stand your ground"
Woman:
*Becomes strong*
*Speaks up*
*Stands her ground*
- Also people:
"Why are you so difficult?"
"Relax"
"You're too unpleasant"
Mind you, 80 to 90% of the time we're generally just telling you what is upsetting/disrespectful/demeaning to us, and asking for a bit of understanding in the matter.
This resonated with lots of you. I've mentioned it before. It's one of my biggest conflicts with being deemed any kind of role model.
In my case, I wish women who have had hard lives could be seen as strong, without requiring them to hide the bad to make us more "palatable".