"Be a strong woman"
"Speak up"
"Stand your ground"
Woman:
*Becomes strong*
*Speaks up*
*Stands her ground*
- Also people:
"Why are you so difficult?"
"Relax"
"You're too unpleasant"
In my case, I wish women who have had hard lives could be seen as strong, without requiring them to hide the bad to make us more "palatable".
I think that's stuff everyone should know.
Think about it, before you dismiss them as just:
Bitter
Difficult
Arrogant
Unpleasant.
It is literally trash taking itself out.
To the rest of the men who actually understand, know you're the exception.