First, the personality quirks my system has to manage: 1) Fortunately, I get nervous if I'm spending more than I'm making. No problems saving vs. spending "bonus" money. 2) I hate the constraints of a constant daily budget. 3) I get excited for sprints, tired of marathons.
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On my wife's side, she basically doesn't want to think about money. She might not be able to tell you our net worth within 50%.
That means I manage all the finances and am the "no" person.
On the other side, I have close to full freedom in our investment allocations.
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Since neither of us wants to be micromanaged, I rely on automation and a high-level safeguard (bullet #5):
1) Automatically save in retirement and kids' college accounts. 2) Auto-pay bills from checking.
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3) If we're in the lucky position of our salary income far exceeding expenses, I'll reduce the gap with a fake bill...sending a set amount to our savings each month.
4) I manually move any non-salary lump sums immediately from checking into savings or investment accounts.
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5) All of the above allows our checking account to basically act as our budget.
When I'm frequently having to supplement it from savings/investments, it's time to figure out how to reverse it.
It ain't perfect, but it works well enough for us. Curious how others do it.
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Thought experiment: What would you do if you had to double your current annual savings?
(My answer threaded)
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We're (family of four) already pretty strong savers, so doubling would mean considering pretty big things.
1) Moving to a lower-cost city/area...we live in the DC area, so most cities are cheaper (I could move to a few different cities and still keep my current job).
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2) Leave a job I love for one that I'd like less if it paid more.
I'm pretty good with money but awful with desserts.
To save me, cookies need to be (in order of effectiveness): 1) At 7-11 instead of the house, so I'll be too lazy to get them 2) Hidden by my wife 3) In a cupboard vs. counter
Here are three similar money tactics...
1) Hide the password if you shouldn't touch it
A friend once gave me his brokerage password and told me to change it.
When he wanted to do something ill-advised, he'd have to sheepishly ask me for it.
Not generally advisable unless it's a spouse. But maybe a safe deposit box?
My 8 key takeaways from Buffett's annual $BRK shareholder letter...
Including the best line and the best number...
1) “A Berkshire Number that May Surprise You”:
Berkshire owns the most American-based property, plant, and equipment of any US company: $154B
#2 is $T with $127B
2) Buffett’s “my bad”
The $11 billion write-down of his 2016 purchase of Precision Castparts.
As usual, he praised management even as he badmouths himself about overpaying: "No one misled me in any way – I was simply too optimistic about PCC’s normalized profit potential."