Thread by @RealTalkFadzie

Some of the most common things that make relationships fail

Men:
#1 Lack of love & affection
Women want love, affection, attention & security if you fail to provide those things a woman may lose interest in u. u can express your love through words of affection, being faithful

to your girlfriend, listen to her , protect her, lead your partner without turning her into your slave & don't take a good woman for granted just because she loves & respects you.

#2 Poor choice in women driven by lust

Of course, for many guys looks are what you see first that draws your interests & attention to a woman but there is need to assess that person’s personality before you cast ur nets.

Take your time to study & know a potential suitor before wooing her. It will save you diving into the deep end and drown prematurely. Ask yourself besides good looks, a good body and good sex what does your girlfriend have to offer.

Don't just go for a woman who makes you hard but the one who makes you want to work hard who can help build you, a woman who respects you and who is not only beautiful on the outside but as inside as well who makes you happy.

#3 Toxic masculinity
There is nothing wrong with being an alpha male but it becomes a bore when it’s overdone while exerting too much emotional unrest on the woman. There is huge difference between being an alpha male and a misogynist.

#4 Having too many sexual partners
The more women a man sleeps with e wider his comparison spectrum and higher the chances of dissatisfaction with other women. This makes e chances of cheating on a partner higher too. Sex may actually become

some sport & nothing sacred to a man such that he will carry on with that habit of having many sexual partners into his relationships. Having too many women is a sign a lack of sexual discipline & it is disctructive & has led to the downfall of many men.

#5 Not having a purpose
A man without a mission is like a boat floating unguided over the waves it has no idea where it’s going or how to get there.You’re at the mercy of the waves and wherever they want to take you.

How many women are going to want to climb into that boat with you and drift aimlessly around the ocean?
If you you have no mission in life, no goals lined up and no plan, women lose interest!

Women are generally more attracted to men with a purpose & a goal in life. Don't waste your time on useless things like playing video games, drinking and clubbing all the time avoid being a couch potato ,do something constructive with your life.

#6 Friends/family influence
It’s very wise to date That kind of woman who has the qualities & traits you desire in a woman whose personality resonates with your expectations. In as much as it is good to listen to family members

do not allow them to have too much control & power over whom you date. Learn to stand up for your woman (ie she's a good woman) and don't allow anyone to come in between the two of you & talk negatively about her.

#7 Lack of responsibility & confidence

Majority of women want men who are confident, strong, ambitious who are hard working who pocess good leadership skills, it's easy to submit to & respect men who are like that. Self pity is not attractive it makes women lose interest.