"Parasocial relationships" usually implies the person/fan has a positive approach to the famous person
But is there a term for when someone has an antagonistic parasocial relationship
Like, instead of just not liking someone, they project all these negative things on to them
Like with certain set of podcast brothers or youtubers or generally anyone who's been famous,
there's always this weird contingent of people who can't just not like someone, they can't just find someone annoying
They have to vilify them, assume they're secretly evil or whatever
It's ESPECIALLY bad when these people don't have this sort of energy towards people who are actually bad
People who are "saying the quiet part loud" bad
I have friends and mutuals who are creatives and have a decent-to-large following who constantly have people assume things about them with no evidence beyond "I've been having this argument in my head and I won so that means I'm right"
I've seen a lot of people point out that cancel culture, in what it actually does, doesn't actually target the people who complain about it and more targets POC, LGTBQ+, or even allies who may or may not have made a mistake and have been dogpiled for it
Also, he describes Walker as "Wants to create but is generally incurious about what other people think or feel" and I feel like could describe a certain type of person online no matter what kind of media they create
Like, the kind of people whose whole personality is making fun of or not liking things and that's their whole youtube channel or whatever.
One of the worst parts about nerd culture over the last 15-ish years is people caring or arguing or obsessing over the financial side of their favorite things
Not, like, "oh I hope this thing makes money so they can make more of this thing that I like"
I'm talking about like when weirdos start talking about whether Marvel or Avatar deserve the top spot of #1 movie
or whether the PS5 or Xbox Series X|S is selling better
or if Epic losing $300 million matters at all because it's a multibillion dollar company
I don't know if anyone else has this particular anxiety, but the early years of Twitter where social activism/justice basically boiled down to "Have you seen this fucked up thing? If you haven't, you are now and if you're not talking about it, you don't care and are a bad person"
The situational support stemming from police killing a black person lasts for about a week and isn't substantial in any sense and, I know in my case, makes me feel like shit on multiple levels