A child isn't a career. If you sleep with a married man knowingly & end up siring his kids, you have abused the clean hands doctrine & cannot claim injustice. Do that which you would do if the man was dead. Since men don't carry pregnancy, primary vigilance is with the carrier.
This is not a sanitization of irresponsibility or promiscuity. Men would be more responsible if they carried kids, they don't. Their sensitivity ends where their manhoods end. Whether it is right is not the question, IT JUST IS! You can live an alarmist or a happy woman.
Pregnancy is not a disability. After your term, get back to grinding. There are millions of single mothers who have made it without the man. You cannot lament enough to have a man care for his child. It will always be a push & pull affair to the detriment of the child.
There is a reason men abandoned by their wives do not institute pursuit. They simply shift their focus to their businesses & fatherhood. They know they can't change the woman, so they change themselves. You'll seldom hear of men seeking alimony. Never, in fact. Accept & move on!
Unfortunately, this is the era of entrenched hypergamy & sexual liberation. This will fall on deaf ears & many will continue to weep. I wish you stoicism on your journey. You will experience depression, nightmares & diarrhea. Everybody loves a fool but none wants him for a son.
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