unfortunately having the correct position has no correlation with rhetorical skill. people that have valid skepticism of [many things] generally get bulldozed because they dont take the right verbal approach. ur, validly, pointing to unknowns. u dont need to prove specifics [...]
so someone comes along and says, why wont you just let brian hold your money. youre saying hes stealing money right now? prove it. prove that he is stealing peoples money. you have literally no evidence or data to support that. and, maybe you dont, so it looks like you lose.
in this situation, all u need to do is prove that being skeptical or untrustworthy of brian is a valid position. thats it. the specifics literally dont matter at all. maybe he is stealing peoples money, maybe he isnt. u only have to show that its logical to not blindly trust him.
i see over and over and over literally hundreds of times in totally completely unrelated fields and cases people lose arguments like this because you let the other person suck you into attempting to prove the unknown. which you cant. its unknown. thats what ur whole case rests on
if my uncle is not worthy of total complete trust, i dont need to prove anything specific about anything he is doing in any specific case. its literally completely and totally irrelevant. the fact that he isnt worthy of complete trust, if i can prove that, validates skepticism.
just consider that if u get into arguments about this kind of thing with people or if they get in your face about it. do not get sucked into minutia. its a bigger picture. your skepticism is valid. just focus on that. is skepticism valid here. if it is, game over, thats the point
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been a little slow on comics as i am securing a new space, rest assured i am flagellating myself in the driveway and wearing a hair shirt to an extent that is appropriate. i have a pretty heinous amount of [many things] on deck / in the drafts tho. i receive “the keys” tomorrow.
perhaps it is because i am male but i noticed that whatever aesthetic ability ive cobbled together over the years does not translate into IRL things like home and clothes. i have banned myself from choosing colors to paint the new rooms in, for the good of everyone, including me
me, choosing paint colors for the house: yeah we can do this room in dark purple, this will be the gold room, gotta have a black room, and a pink room, actually maybe we can get the classic vaporwave gradient in the hallway that leads to the pink room
this is what spiritual materialism is. theres no way for you to know this based on the markers youre using and elevating as “spiritual” here and in your mind.
just woke up so maybe im missing the jOke but is like to see more people use the phrase spiritual materialism. it still fits very well into my worldview + is an very useful designator, even tho it was coined by a hardcore tibetan buddhist guy (weird guy btw look him up if u want)
find the second note here the most interesting as this guy was a straight up tibetan buddhist mega guru, so obviously he identified with a particular religion, like we all do, but in his mind there was an aspect of this that could cross over into ego aggrandizement, “materialism”
the bank has signed me up for an afternoon class on home ownership, despite the fact that i was clearly able to demonstrate that i appreciate caring for a dwelling at a very high spiritual level and have, non coincidentally, seen every episode of king of the hill multiple times
bank woman (the bankess) was not even aware of african villages wherein there is a home at the center that contains a tiny recapitulatory model of the entire village itself, was not aware that "temple" and "template" are related, of a building as a blueprint for the cosmos. ok
perhaps i should be teaching u, bank maiden, about "ownership of the home". how do u justify ownership in your worldview. on what basis does one claim that they can own things. is it purely darwinian. is it just evolution, genes duking it out, temporarily owning homes. is that it
so ive been looking into 1800s american christianity, particularly the more (respectfully) atypical or fringe or weirder manifestations of it, those that could be said to have somewhat uniquely developed in that time. i have turned a corner in understand the cause and effect here
there is definitely a surge of novelty and “new schools” (not gonna say this every time but i mean this all from a theologically neutral perspective). the conventional explanation i always got was basically “well, new county, new vibe, they needed new religious stuff”.
i generally dislike this kind of top down backwards causality explanation of social trends because i dont think it explains how individual people on the ground are acting. its not like these people thought this way, “hey, new nation, lets make a new form of christianity for it”.
have a lot of baby tweets in the drafts. ur gonna have to deal with that for a minute. can you believe i had an ultrasound and my wife had her first ultrasound on the same day and while i was getting mine i only got to relay this excellent joke set up to one person. such a waste.
also you know they have this test thing or something that you have to do where they cut the babys heel and take some of its blood and apparently you cant opt out of it. they say its for some state database. havent looked into it yet but tell me thats not some nefarious op, fr
i have the young college age nurses taking my blood and passing it around into whatever labyrinthine passages exist behind those metal doors, like some kind of vital smoking device, now they require my childs blood, how much blood does this machine take to run, one has to wonder