🔹🔹Things You Should Realize After 1 Year On the Job - PART I 🔹🔹
To help you jump ahead in the learning curve, or in other cases question your own decisions, here are 20 things you should realize after a single year of work experience (10 here 10 in next thread)
A Thread 👇
1. $100K IS NOT A LOT OF MONEY
Not even close
If you are making $100K a year that's approximately $5,000 in post tax income per month
With the average rent for a studio in a major city like NYC at $2K+ this means that you cannot even afford to live there (using the 1/3 of income as rent rule, you need at least $6K post tax)
If you cannot afford to live in your own place in a major city...
You’re no where near rich
Times have changed
2. SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE NICE
In college you’re taught to hate the rich and believe that they are all a**holes
In reality, the elite are actually easy to get along with...
The catch is they don’t enjoy wasting time
If you’re of no value and don’t have potential they will quickly move on since there is no point in building a relationship
This isn’t mean, this is realistic
There are many other promising people that they can spend their time with
3. 60 HOURS IS LONGER THAN YOU THOUGHT
When you graduated, you believed that 12 hour work days would not be that bad
In reality it causes you to be excruciatingly efficient
If you work 14 hours in a day, your mind becomes tired by hour 10
You have not had the chance to work out, do laundry, or relax...
Time to make adjustments
4. YOUR COLLEGE FRIENDS GO AWAY
If college was the best time of your life, you did it wrong
You may keep 1 or 2 around who are equally successful, but if the gang from college is always together, there are serious problems
Your friends in college will be quickly replaced by business associates, as they say:
“It is hard to hate someone that makes you money”
5. READING INCREASES COMMUNICATION SKILLS
You will be writing an email or talking on the phone one year after graduation and you’ll struggle
For some reason the words are not flowing as much as they used to..
The reason? You’re not reading as much as you should
Pick up a few books and begin reading 100+ pages a week at minimum
It keeps your brain fresh and you will come off as more mature and polished
6. CONSISTENT SLEEP IS BETTER THAN HOURS SLEPT
In short, it is best to sleep at the same time every single day of the week
While 9 hours a day may sound better, if you are not sleeping at the same time your biological clock goes haywire
Waking up at the same time on a daily basis will allow your mind to run like a well oiled machine
7) WOMEN ARE BETTER LIARS THAN MEN
They have better people skills in general
What this means is you’ll believe a lot of the smoke and mirrors
Once you realize that they are simply human, you’ll intelligently adjust your phrases to catch them in lies that determine their level of loyalty
You won’t be surprised that less than 5% will pass
8. YOU CAN GET STRONGER
Assuming you are dedicated to being fit, there is no reason to be in worse shape than you were in college
Your body continues to get stronger through your late 20s Use this to your advantage
You need to walk around more frequently since you’ll be sitting at a desk for the most part
9. COMPLAINERS ARE ALL LOSERS
There is no debating this one, as soon as someone complains about topic X, be certain they know absolutely nothing about that topic
> If they complain about the economy? They are broke and unsuccessful
> If they complain about women? They are not doing well with them
> If they complain about office politics? They have poor social skills
> If they complain about Life? You get the picture
10. COST DOESN'T MATTER
The idea of “big purchase” vs a “small purchase” should be squashed
The only question you need to ask is “What is my return?”
If an item costs $500 or $5,000 the only thing that should matter is the return on investment
If you need to spend $10,000 but it is going to return $20,000 in value to you, there is no need to spin-wheels on the decision
Buy it
Price doesn’t matter
FIN... for now
PART II will be posted tomorrow!
Meanwhile my ask always is:
- RETWEET this 1st tweet of the thread, and
- Follow the wise @BowTiedBull
How do you work for the people you want to work with?
Or the story of Ekalavya
A Thread from personal experience 👇
In the Indian Epic Mahabharatha there's the story of a guy called EKALAVYA who wants to learn archery from the greatest guru DRONA
The problem is Drona won't teach him
He was too busy teaching the Kaurava and Pandava bros who were the Royalty
This, however did not deter Ekalavya because nothing stops a determined man
He just made a statue of Drona and began self-learning archery while fully taking it in his mind that the statue is no different than the real Guru Drona himself
10 Working-Life Truths You DON'T Learn From Business School
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The importance of being political within an office environment
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1. PERFORMANCE IS FIRST
Most companies will have a handful of political elites, people hired solely because of their connections, but the cast majority get jobs by having the right credentials
If you want to have a long career, you cannot simply do an average job
You need to do work ahead of time that you believe will be handed to you during the next turn
In short as an entry level hire your job is to save the team time
"Persuasion Secrets of the World's Most Charismatic & Influential Villains"
by Ben Settle
(I'm reading about marketing and persuasion these days)
A Book Notes thread 👇
"Villain" is used as a positive word here
A powerful man who can accomplish anything he sets his mind on, and is utterly despised, but cannot be touched by the scandalous authorities of the system is a Villain
(Clowns the Authorities are!)
The most powerful and persuasive Villains in the world, all possess one thing in common - It's Charisma
It means
"Compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others"
Charisma is the ultimate power one can desire for and hold on
Every year the world is going to get tougher, but you’re smart enough to put in the work
If you continue to challenge yourself mentally and physically, the punches that life throws your way will seem like a cake walk
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1. GET RID OF BAD INFORMATION
In the age of the internet this is probably the number one skill we can all improve upon
Obtain good information
> Do not take advice from people with zero real life experience
> Do not take advice from people who had an easier life than you
> Do not take advice from people who complain
It will be difficult to hit all 3 items on the list but that is the point
"A person is in PAIN or they are seeking PLEASURE. Provide a solution to get rid of the pain or provide a solution to obtain pleasure. That is how you sell"