Life is like a video game. The π΅ question: which game are you playing?
Is it Fortnite Battle Royale, where you outshine an arena of others?
Pokemon, where you collect and show off your rare finds?
Minecraft or Roblox, meta-games where you build games that others play?
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Or perhaps you're playing...
Tetris, the game of slotting stuff into the right place with increasing intensity (aka management)
Minesweeper, the game of avoiding being cancelled
Myst, the game of figuring out what the hell this world is all about.
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Some games are extraordinarily popular. When everyone around you is playing, it's easy to get swept up in them:
The "Be influential on [App] about [Topic]" game
The "Show off your wealth and fancy possessions" game
The "Look attractive and get liked" game
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But there are a stunning variety of games you can play:
The "Make money off crypto" game
The "BTS ARMY breaks records" game
The "Make others laugh" game
The "Help someone else reach their full potential" game
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The lesson many eventually learn is that the game we've spent years playing turns out not to be the right one.
It's like discovering all your life you've been trying to win at competitive Street Fighter when what you really love is Final Fantasy.
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And the problem with most advice you get is that someone will say: "Oh, to get to the next level, you just need to mash the 'jump' button twice as quickly as you can and press Y."
And their advice might be absolutely spot-on if you're playing Mario. But are you?
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So how do you find the game that's right for you?
1) Ask others what they're playing to know the options. "What drives you?" 2) Try out a bunch of different games. 3) Think about yourself at 80--what will you be proud that you played? 4) Avoid comparisons.
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What game am I playing these days?
1) Can I show up for my family, friends and community in accordance with my values? 2) Can I learn and better myself every single day? 3) Can I create at the peak of what I am capable of?
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What game are you playing?
Fin.
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Imagine you're using a product and something bothers you about it.
Maybe it takes 5 clicks to do anything.
Maybe it works but is kinda ugly and clunky.
"I bet I could make a new app that's 15% better," you think. "Instant business success!"
This is a fallacy. Thread π
This lesson took me many failures to properly appreciate.
Especially since it seems like a given: if millions of people use a mediocre service every day, and I come along and make the same thing but better, won't they obviously choose my product?
But no.
Product builders are trained to ask: "Is our product better than the competition's?"
What they should be asking instead is: "Is our product better enough to motivate a change in behavior?"
Not sprawling networks of people (though technically that's right)
Rather, thinking about a company as an individual makes many things easier to understand.
Pick the company to join like you'd pick who you'd want to hang out with every day.
Threadπ
Companies have personalities, just like people do. Some companies are flashy and dramatic. Others are staid and quiet. Some live in the future, constantly tossing out new inventions. Others are ruthlessly competitive.
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Like with people, all strengths have shadow downsides. Apple's quality and cool comes from a secretive, top-down culture.
Zoom's focus on superior tech leaves it lacking when it comes to product features.
Before The Making of a Manager came out, my publishers and I had a chat that left me deeply uncomfortable.
"Who are some business writers / leaders you admire?" they asked.
Easy. I rattled off a dozen names.
"Great, can you ask them to read your book and give a blurb?"
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My initial reaction: π¬
I came up with a myriad of excuses for why I couldn't ask for a blurb.
They don't know me! It would be rude to ask.
They are important people and far too busy to read my book!
I don't have their e-mails.
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My publishers cheerfully added some e-mails to the list, reminded me of how important blurbs were to establish the credibility of my book, and wished me well.