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27 May, 14 tweets, 3 min read
The latest episode of @CRightcast was a very rough one to research and record. Content warnings VERY much apply for it and this thread — it covers child sexual abuse, religious abuse, and the ways some fundamentalist groups explicitly silence victims and protect abusers.
The story that prompted this departure from our Reconstructionsm series was Josh Duggar's arrest for possession of child sexual abuse materials, and the Duggar family's connection to fundamentalist teacher Bill Gothard. rightcast.substack.com/p/episode-13
Gothard and his IBLP/ATI organizations are regarded as "extreme" and "legalistic" by the most Christians, even inside the Christian Right… but his bent towards authoritarianism and rigid enforcement of patriarchal gender roles is treated as "oldschool" rather than "dangerous."
He taught that dating was wrong and made fathers sign pledges to "shield their daughters" from its evils. That fathers should keep them at home until they married and passed over to another man's "protection." That should always wear long dresses and long hair for "modesty."
And chillingly, he and his org taught that sexual abuse and assault almost always involve "shared guilt" by the perpetrator and the victim. @RLStollar has done a lot of legwork in exposing the internal IBLP documents (and teaching materials) that explicitly blame victims.
About 5-6 years ago, though, a cloud of sexual harassment accusations — serious enough that Gothard was ousted as the head of the organization he founded — put a lot of those things in a different light.
The demands Gothard made of women, particularly young women: their appearance, their manner, the steps they were instructed to take if violated… Damaging for a host of reasons, but after he was ousted?
In light of the accusations against Gothard those teachings looked a lot more like a system built to supply abusers with compliant victims, then protect the abusers from repercussions.
So, around 2002, the Duggar family — years before they were the squeaky-clean public face of Quiverfull fundamentalism — discovered their 15 year old son had been molesting multiple girls, his younger sister included.

The Duggars took him to Bill Gothard's org for "help."
When that story broke in 2015 (before the accusations about Gothard and related legal battles became public), everyone familiar with Christian Purity culture and Gothard's approach to dealing with sexual abuse immediately knew it would go very, very badly.
And now, six or so years later, 33 year old Josh Duggar is facing charges for crimes that make it clear Gothard's teaching — and the purity culture "solutions" to predation and abuse — did nothing.
Unravelling and explaining the connection in this episode of the podcast was emotionally exhausting for both Kristin and I — thankfully we were able to lean heavily on the good work of folks like @RLStollar and others who cover the fundamentalist homeschooling movement.
Episode 14 will be broader — rather the ugly and soul-crushing details of one organization's abuses, we'll be examining the broader themes of Christian Purity Culture — how it intersects with familiar cultural battles over sex ed, "family values," and more.
For those who know me… yes, there's a diagram. Naturally.

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28 May
While breaking down the different conceptual building blocks of modern evangelical "Purity Culture" for the next episode of @CRightcast I've come across a critical component that — weirdly enough — also appears a lot in the internet Rationalist community.
A big part of tackling complicated issues — poverty, why evil exists, why my wifi keeps dropping — is getting to root causes and patterns, rather than just focusing on the surface stuff. It's important!
Often, the process of searching for those underlying patterns can help us sort through the confusion and identify how a challenging problem can be solved.

…But that "what's REALLY going on here?" process can also be used to obfuscate, to minimize, to shift blame.
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SUPER COMPELLING for a FED team frustrated by tight coupling with legacy systems or services, but… for people in charge of the whole product (or teams handling that backend stuff) the challenges still gotta be solved, with the added lift of keeping the complexities hidden.
Decoupling and headless approaches can definitely deliver significant advantages — esp. for orgs that really need to use the same pipeline for many different content/interaction endpoints — but the complexity doesn't go away, only shifts around.
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23 Apr
"Woke" is absolutely the new "virtue signal" — a phrase that had a particular specific meaning in a particular circle, but was then yoinked by reactionaries who wanted some _other_ way to say "I really dislike other people trying to be more decent than I want to be."
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Always telling on themselves, I guess?
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1 Apr
One of the weird things about growing up in purity culture is internalizing the symbolism of virginity-as-property and violence-as-care.
"Your dad would murder any boy who slept with you!" was a frequently heard, unironic compliment to young women, meant to convey: "You are loved and valued and protected!" But even ignoring the question of agency (guess what, young women are horny, too) it's incredibly hollow.
It reduces the idea of a close and supportive relationship between a father and daughter to "I will do violence to someone who hurts you."

There is no corollary attention paid to the question of, "What does a person whose heart has been hurt *need* from a caring father?"
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31 Mar
In all seriousness, I love the hell out of Keynote and use it *a lot*. But things like "master slides plus color schemes" are just impossible to pull off.
As long as *literally all you need* is a shift in slide-wide background color, you can get by with including a master page of color swatches and trusting people to use them wisely, but it breaks down badly when text/line/etc colors have to shift as well
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21 Mar
“There’s so much confusion. It doesn’t make any sense. But, father, we know this is the result of sin.” Associate Pastor Luke Folsom's prayer to the Atlanta killer's fellow congregants feels rather hollow, because what happened *does* make sense.

washingtonpost.com/nation/2021/03…
Christian fundamentalist culture tells young men that they are destined to be warriors for God who change the world — but that destiny depends on their purity and faithfulness to Him.
Purity Culture combines with that — telling young men (and women) over, and over, and over that their sexual feelings and desires are impure — not just bad, but an implicit threat to the destiny they've been promised.
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