Gender inequality: Men are part of the problem and part of the solution. Speech by Michael Flood. 5 points: 1) Gender shapes everyone’s lives. 2) Australia is a gender-unequal society, with a systematic pattern of female disadvantage & male privilege. xyonline.net/content/gender… 1/4
3) Feminism has made a positive difference. 4) Men are part of the problem. Gender inequalities are sustained in part by men – by men’s attitudes, behaviours, identities, and relations. Male privilege is personal: most men have acted in sexist ways. Myself included. 2/4
Men benefit from male privilege, whether we want to or not. From the unearned advantages of an unequal system. At the same time, men pay heavy costs for conformity to traditional masculinity, to our health and relationships. 3/4
5) Men are part of the solution. Men will benefit from progress towards gender equality. Men at every level can make a difference, whether they’re wearing a hard hat or a suit and tie. See the speech text here: xyonline.net/content/gender… 4/4
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Mapping norms of masculinity: New report on people’s attitudes in Australia, ‘Masculinities and Health’. Shows broad support for progressive understandings: Gender is socially constructed. Support for equality. But also support for regressive messages. See vichealth.vic.gov.au/breakingstereo…
Talking about consent is not enough. Knowledge about consent is necessary but not sufficient, for preventing sexual assault. By Ahona Guha, March 8 2021. smh.com.au/national/talki… 1/4
"a significant majority of men who sexually victimise women have some understanding that they are breaching boundaries […] Perpetrators often know that consent has not been given, but ignore this.” 2/4
Sexual assault is not a crisis of a lack of knowledge about consent, but a crisis of *ignoring consent*. We need wider, more frequent community conversations regarding consent. “We need to talk about the entitlement that some boys and men feel to women’s bodies and to sex" 3/4
Consenting to touch I didn’t want: One woman’s exploration of how often women give ‘empty consent’ to touch by men they don’t really want or feel ambivalent about, e.g. because fear something worse. nytimes.com/2021/03/31/mag… 1/4
Affirmative consent laws are valuable, but are implemented in a world in which vast numbers of people (women) are conditioned from childhood to consent to touch we don’t want. 2/4
Story of a "cuddle party", with explicit norms of affirmative consent. And how even in this context, women’s internalised compliance can mean that they agree to touch without a genuine assessment of their own desires 3/4
Why "consent" doesn’t stand a chance against porn culture. By Melinda Tankard Reist. abc.net.au/religion/conse… 1/5
The porn industry is a mammoth dispenser of sexualised violence and misogyny; it is the world’s most powerful sexual groomer. […] the porn industry takes pre-existing harmful codes of masculinity and entitlement and turbocharges them. 2/5
The girls’ and young women’s testimonies from the Sydney petition collected by Chanel Contos provide accounts of young men ignoring consent or of forcing something close enough to consent to give the perpetrator plausible deniability. 3/5
A feminist intersectional approach to engaging men in violence prevention 1/7: Men in different social locations have differential access to social resources and social status. Are privileged on some axes of inequality (including gender) and disadvantaged on others
2/7: Ethnicity and other forms of social difference shape both victimisation and perpetration. E.g., how male perpetrators are treated and viewed is shaped by race/ethnicity. Privileged men’s violence is treated and understood differently from disadvantaged men’s violence
3/7: Violence prevention with *any* group should assume that everyone has culture. Everyone is located in hierarchies of privilege and disadvantage. There are specific cultures of gender and sexuality in every group and community.
Consent apps are useless, and indeed dangerous. Don’t address how: Consent can be forced or pressured. Capacity to consent can be undermined by alcohol or drugs. Gender power differentials mean women often ‘consent’ to sex they don’t want. 1/3
Consent is a process, not a moment or one-off agreement. Consent should be to each sexual activity, at every step, in sexual interaction. Consent apps don’t allow consent to be withdrawn. Don’t allow participants to change their minds, or consent to some activities but not others
Consent apps are a distraction from the real work of tackling sexual violence. Doing this will require comprehensive, systematic primary prevention strategies. What does this look like? Our Watch’s Change the Story framework is a great place to start. ourwatch.org.au/change-the-sto… 3/3