It's nearly impossible to begin to disentangle the fight for LGBTQ+ rights from the battle for AIDS education, prevention, protections and awareness.
So I try to begin each Pride month by recognising some of the people who were truly pioneers that helped shape my own work as an AIDS activist, a social justice warrior, civil rights ally, and LGBTQ+ activist.
And that list always begins with some of those pioneers who can easily get "lost" in the pages of history...
Queer women.
Barbara May Cameron was one of those incredible women in my life. She was a gifted photographer, women's rights activist, Native American rights advocate and creator of the nation's first Indigenous People's LGBTQ liberation organisation (the Gay American Indians).
The reason for founding GAI, according to Cameron, was that Native American LGBTQ people had different needs/ struggles than the gay white community.
She was among the first to point out that there was a lack of support for people of colour within the LGBTQ+ community...
...an issue that remains largely unresolved to this day -- forty-six years after she and Randy Burns started their organisation.
Barbara was also, like so many lesbians, among the first to respond to the AIDS epidemic, helping to create networks of "buddies" to assist gay men who were sick and dying, in the earliest days of the epidemic.
It's important to remember that when we saw that first wave of sickness and deaths, many gay men shunned their dying brothers and sisters in fear of "catching the gay plague", but Dykes on Bikes, Trans women and other women's organisations stepped up led the way.
Barbara was a celebrated author, a film maker, and part of the leadership of the Lesbian Gay Freedom Day Parade in the early 80s, and of the Alice B Toklas Democratic Club.
She served as the co-chair of Lesbian Agenda for Action, and was among the first people to come to my side, when my longtime companion, Ronn DeKock, whom she "watched grow up" as a kid in San Francisco, lay dying from PCP in 1990.
Reading diatribes written by people who recognise the amount of FRAUD in modern spiritual communities, movements, covens and societies, who think the "solution" is more gatekeeping bullshit, with wholly unqualified people determining who is "accredited" to practice is... (1/5)
...the PERFECT illustration of why I find 20th century attempts to turn the Craft into a religion to be as problematic, unnecessary and as fraught with disgrace as Christian fundamentalism. (2/5)
Instead, I APPLAUD bold, clear and concise statements disavowing the kind of destructive, vile and unethical behaviours we've seen from certain vermin in New Orleans and Salem. We need more ACCOUNTABILITY not ACCREDITATION! 3/5)
For many years, I made a sincere effort to give everyone a fair shake. Just because someone associated with toxic people, I didn't automatically write them off. 1/10
But there comes a time, as we realise the impact that those toxic connections have on a much broader range of interactions, when we have to say, "Sorry... your association with toxic individuals is unacceptable and an indication of your tacit approval of their behaviour. 2/10
It's time for us to part company."
And I get it... There have been times when I tried to "tolerate" someone's behaviour, to maintain cordial business relationships myself.
But here's the thing... 3/10