Today, SBC messengers voted to conduct a convention-wide audit of abuse and mishandling, and also to investigate the actions of convention leaders related to sexual abuse. It's a critical step, but what what I want you to really see, is what it took to get here:
Well over a decade ago, @ChristaBrown777 began pioneering the movement to shine a light in the SBC. At great personal cost, she told the truth over, and over, and over. Leaders called her demonic, satanic, as bad as an abuser, but still she fought for the truth and survivors.
She wrote a book and began a website tracking SBC abusers and coverup. When other survivors like @ThigpenTiffany came forward, Christa was the safe place, and the one to guide survivors through the storm that was coming when they dared to speak up.
Together, survivors like Tiffany, @Dave_Pittman and others spoke up. A very few seasoned advocates, like Christa and @BozT fought for them and spoke the truth. @DianeLangberg pioneered understanding and responding to trauma in the church. The response was often vitriolic.
Over the course of many years others began to speak up. When @megannlively exposed Paige Patterson’s coverup of her abuse, Jenn Lyell began a quiet petition to have him removed. @SusanCodone educated and pushed for change. Retaliation against them was swift and strong.
When a few leaders reached out to me to work on the Caring Well curriculum and other abuse related issues in the SBC, I expected that the trickle-down work of educating would take decades, but suggested two critical steps that could be taken immediately:
1. An audit of the convention to gather data related to abuse & mishandling, & to identify trends & patterns to inform meaningful steps forward.
2. An investigation into actions of elected, appointed or paid staff or leaders of the Convention, related to abuse & mishandling of abuse.
I expected it would take years to see this done, if at all. But survivors continued to speak up. A few brave leaders refused to silence them or the Caring Well team, even when they knew ahead of time the controversy that would ensue if we spoke freely on stage.
However, the executive committee leadership stonewalled and refused all offers of help. They defamed Jen Lyell and refused to back down. Hours upon hours upon hours of work by myself and many others was consumed, all with no expectation of seeing tangible fruit.
When @toddbenkert & @DGrantGaines reached out regarding their motions, I shared with them the steps I’d been advocating for & helped draft the motions to clearly articulate their goals without running afoul of SBC parliamentary rules.
The best I hoped for was that it would draw the lines clearly, and help clear the path for passage in a few years. But their commitment, and the commitment of so many survivors and leaders, came together to create the first steps to meaningful reform in the SBC.
What I hope we all take from this is the following:

- Sound theology and SBC polity is not and never has been, in opposition to meaningful steps to reform. All that is needed are leaders willing to ask those who can help “how do we get this done?” and then fighting for it.
- Change is slow. It can take decades of invested time and the work of so many before tangible fruit is seen. But that investment of love and faithfulness is not wasted.
- Fighting for truth, justice and reform is the work of a community. Caring well for those who have been deeply wounded requires the participation of everyone. Messengers had to listen, pay attention, care, and take a stand. And they overwhelmingly did.
This is the work we have been called to:

Do justice.
Love mercy.
Walk humbly before God.

I am so grateful we saw a tangible example of this in Nashville. The work is not done; but we'll do it, together.

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15 Jun
The idea that SBC theology and polity prevents following best standards practices related to sexual and domestic violence is absolute nonsense, always has been, and that's well known. How do I know? Because I've gone through the legal and polity questions repeatedly...(thread)
Way back when I was first asked to work on the Caring Well curriculum I began discussing with several leaders and staff what could be done under SBC polity and exactly how to do it, and why. Over the time I've walked with the SBC, I've urged for the following:
A denominational audit to simply get a better picture of precisely what is taking place. An entirely voluntary mechanism for collecting data which can be done without requiring any church to be investigated, but which can inform trends, patterns and practical needed steps.
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13 Jun
WHY ENGAGE WITH A GROUP OR INSTITUTION THAT DOESN’T SET UP ALL THE RIGHT TERMS RIGHT AWAY?

It’s a fair question we’ll have to wrestle with a lot as leaders and institutions begin exploring this need. Here’s my perspective:

There are four categories we have to think about:
1 – Survivors of the abuse or abusive institutions. We need to do the absolute best we can to fight for justice and restitution on their behalf. This includes fighting for answers they deserve.
2 – Future victims. Culture, policy, awareness, etc all has to change in order to help keep the next generation safer. We need to push for best standards practice and the best education that reaches the heart, not just focusing on the right “rules”.
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11 Jun
Guidepost is a highly skilled and qualified firm and I have confidence in their ability to do what the SBC needs.

HOWEVER, the ability to do what they are capable of will depend on the EC letting them do their job. Here's what you should ask for that isn't commissioned yet:
The EC has NOT included all paid, appointed or elected leaders or staff of the Convention in this commission. The scope should be broadened to include these official actors.
The EC has NOT committed to waiving privilege so that Guidepost has access to all data and information. This step is absolutely critical, but the EC alone can make this move, and any firm hired would be inhibited by a refusal to do so no matter how good the firm.
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10 Jun
This cannot be characterized as anything less than dishonest. I am beyond disappointed that at every opportunity to stand for the truth, Ronnie Floyd has deflected and refused to be honest, causing so much damage to so many. This is not honest.
There was absolute refusal by Ronnie, most EC members and the credentialing committee, to address the issue of abuse, or even discuss best standards.

No one wanted these men to emerge as strong leaders more than the survivors who desperately needed their leadership.
I pleaded for months for Ronnie to speak with me to address the intentional defamation of Jen Lyell, with no legal action needed. Jen had already plead for months as well.

Ronnie would not even speak to me. We were literally told by staff that legal action was required.
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10 Jun
I don't talk about this much because I'm... really bad about 'marketing' myself. But with things finally opening back up and travel resuming, I thought I'd remind people about one of the primary components of my work: Speaking & educating on the dynamics of sexual abuse.
I have been blessed with the opportunity to speak at an incredible variety of events which allows me to draw on my unique training and experiences to address diverse audiences. From school-aged children to the elderly, there is no segment of society untouched by this scourge.
I am a recurring guest of both the US Military Academy at West Point and the US Naval Academy at Annapolis, training future officers about the type of leadership required to respond to the plague of sexual assault.
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7 Jun
What does Augie Boto and USAG have in common? Protecting THE SAME pedophilic coaches.

It was this incredible woman's story that made me come forward. It was her abuser that Augie tried to protect in 2018, using his SBC credentials (thread).

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Becca's coach was convicted of multiple counts of severe sexual assault against a minor. She was not the only survivor. Boto's son was friends with this coach. Boto decided to attend the original trial, by his own testimony, because he got "interested" in it.
First, consider how unusual it really is to take time from a very busy schedule, to attend the trial of a serial pedophile, out of "interest", when there was no personal relationship between this coach and Boto himself.
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