You know this "behavioral therapy," that
Teachers
Therapists
Doctors
all endorse for autistic kids?
It teaches autistic kids to hide sensory pain, and increases the likelihood of PTSD and suicidality in autistic people.
Yea, it's surprising. But it's also true. #SayNoToABA
"After repeated cycles in the classroom, the Autistic child begins to develop PTSD because the neurotypical BCBA is focused on the function of behavior and the compliance of the child, and not what the child is communicating with their behavior."-Amy Grant therapistndc.org/aba-therapy-an…
How Dr. Perry describes trauma: "any pattern of activating your stress response system that leads to an alteration in how that system is functioning..an overactivity and over reactivity." 1/3
"Tiny little experiences, they get a glance that tells them they don't belong here, they're stupid, or your invisible. And all of these things literally activate your stress response system in an unpredictable way." 2/3
"That pattern if prolonged enough, leads to the very same changes in the brain as a big T trauma & I think that that's an underestimated & underappreciated component of that trauma narrative. It leads to the same emotional, physical & social consequences as capital T trauma." 3/3
"Traumatic experiences early in life are going to have more impact on you than the same experience later in life. Many people think that infants aren't paying attention to fighting of parents..but it's the opposite. The infant is less capable of dealing than the older child."
Brene Brown - "Part of trauma is a situation, an environment, over which we have no control."
Dr. Perry - "Any activation of your stress response, even little, that's unpredictable and uncontrollable, or prolonged, leads to traumatic changes."
"Neglect is as toxic as trauma." - Oprah
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Reminder that it's nearly impossible to search for information about why ABA is bad and find #ActuallyAutistic sources.
What happens when I google (in incognito mode) "Why ABA therapy is harmful" -
The answer to "Is ABA therapy good for autism?" on the web browser:
"ABA is a type of therapy that can improve social, communication, and learning skills through reinforcement strategies. Many experts consider ABA to be the gold-standard treatment for children with autism."
The site in the first question-
No mention of asking the child:
"Goals should be established between the parent and the professional. Any goals your ABA therapist wants to work on with your child should be explained & communicated to you up front."
This is a thread on my (very recent) experience about “delayed emotional processing,” or more accurately:
Forcing yourself to look okay even though you are not because you cannot communicate the complexity of the situation to other people,
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[CW dentist]
and it would not be “appropriate” to break down in front of those same people.
CW dentist
I went to the dentist today, a place that actually has good, supportive staff and has generally been very accommodating and kind. I even got a room on the first floor
2/25
because I told them about my ankle injury. No issues there.
And it’s important to note that sometimes there isn’t any one person at fault, but is simply how us autistic people are required to navigate the world. When I went in, I had to tell the receptionist
You will never be able to prevent every single bad thing (teasing, bullying) from happening to your autistic child.
Something you can do?
Don't tell them to change who they are because you think there's slightly less of a chance they'll be bullied. 1/5
There is such a strange notion out there:
That if you tell autistic children to change their behavior, their interests, or their way of speaking to "fit in,"
the autistic child will be forever protected from bullying and ableism. 2/5
Please don't pre-emptively tell your child that who they are or what they like is wrong or should be "hidden" - You're just telling them those things before bullies do it.
That's it. You're just giving them that shame and anxiety earlier so they're "ready" for the bullies. 3/5
Autistic autism nonprofits need to stop putting "Women" or "Girls" in the title of their nonprofits
if they also actually support autistic people who aren't girls or women. 1/3
Like it's really great you want to support women + other genders, but also I don't want to be associated with a "Women's" nonprofit because that means I will likely get misgendered by other people (not the org itself, but people who see it).
Like just.. yea I'm not a fan. 2/3
Also at some point an LGBTQ+ autistic nonprofit really needs to be created cause there's a huge hole there. 3/3