Michael B Jordan did the right thing. Now, during this Caribbean American Heritage Month, we NEED to have real discussions about issues between Black Americans and Caribbean Americans so that we can be more united instead - tt.loopnews.com/content/michae…
We cannot pretend that issues do not exist betweenn the various groups of who is classified as “Black” in the USA.
Those of us from different countries but still classified as “Black” can speak to the issues we have encountered from those with more history in America
However...
Some of us have contributed to the divide by behaving as if we are better than Black Americans and so we often end up talking AT each other rather than TO each other.
The vitriol on social media around the #JouvertRum issue is just a sneak peak at the real attitudes.
Social media is not the real world, thankfully, but it does provide a looking glass into some attitudes that are more common than we may realize.
It has to start with a willingness to respect cultural differences and not feel that your country or culture is better.
It should continue with a willingness to learn about cultures and countries, a tall ask for Americans in general as the rest of the world knows.
The majority of Black people live outside the USA and “Black Culture” is not defined by America. That is hard for some to accept.
Once this fact is recognized, it makes conversations much more productive. We should be seeking common ground and unite to ensure the elimination of prejudice against us everywhere but instead, we fight against each other with a scarcity mindset.
Abundance Mindset is key.
The Plantation divided us by skin hue and willingness to do certain things. Too many still suffer from “mental slavery” as the Rt. Hon. Marcus Garvey said, a Jamaican man who came to the USA and promoted Pan Africanism.
We all need to pay closer attention to Garvey’s teachings.
It would help if Black Americans were properly taught about our contributions to this country as Caribbean people.
This is exactly why Caribbean American Heritage Month is so vital - OUR stories need to be told.
Never make the mistake of wasting time trying to convert someone into being a supporter/customer/investor before you qualify them and assign them to one of these groups:
Your time is limited and you need to ALWAYS be focusing on what moves the needle, not what strokes your ego or their ego.
Figure out where they fit and then determine if time spent on them right now will yield the results that you need.
Salespeople do this all the time.
Notice that autodealerships and real estate agents ask WHEN you plan to purchase because they need to know who really matters right now, not 3 months from now.
They will keep the relationship but they won’t waste time on trying to make a sale today if you will buy in 6 months
Yesterday a new strategic business partner took me for my first full round of golf since my surgery 2 years ago (I wasn’t allowed to play). Just hitting a ball felt great...the sole Par for the day was brawta.
Plus we had iguanas as our viewing gallery. Glad they can’t boo!
My best shot of the day which got me a par on the hole.
Let’s not talk about the 6 balls that I lost on just the first 9 holes 🤦🏽♂️🤣 (We don’t talk about my score either)
No time at the range for 2 years, only 2 holes in Jamaica last December and still feeling good about my swing after all that time.
Now to get back into the...swing of things (I had to say it 🥸)
I have a framework for my business and personal life that sets a cap on number of things I can work on at the same time and I rank them Low/Med/High on 6 specific metrics and any new one that’s better REPLACES lower ranked one.
I’ve resigned from boards of companies and non-profits, dropped hobbies or moved on from projects/ventures because something came along they ranked higher.
You have to be selective or you burnout.
The most important lesson I have learnt over the years of using this is that no matter what, I can’t take on ANY project that ranks LOW on “Enjoyment”
I won’t do my best and that’s not fair to the other parties or fair to me.
A good friend of mine reached out a few days ago to share what he was working on and I was not surprised...but impressed with the detail, the passion and financials.
I wired the first of our investment today and he is in shock. I can’t wait to announce this one...or the location
He had other investors lined up for the small version of his idea so I asked to see the bigger version and his budget. He didn’t want so many investors though and so he figured he may as well ask me, as a long shot.
Then I shared our @realvibez plans and BOOM...it clicked.
He need a certain amount of capital to pay the deposit on the lease for the building and so I took care of that so that he can begin construction within the next 30 days.
Stay tuned for before and after photos. We really intend to invest differently in the Caribbean. #Culture
I was never raised to envy or hate the wealthy. I was taught to learn what they did different so that I could do what I could to be able to give charitably to address the issues I felt were crucial to a a better society.
I share this video with many ppl -
Wealth creation is not complex but it does require a solid framework, patience and perseverance.
Money is just a tool and you need to have a vision for what you do with it, not merely chase money itself. A hammer can be used to build or tear down. It’s just a tool.