A key difference of course with that last RT is that with this spa thing, there was no actual trans woman present to be miscast. Just a one-woman performance piece of their favorite fantasy scenario.
That said, that fantasy in particular and all their recent internal language
policing is built around a party line that trans women are not actually a real thing that exists, and any time anyone claims to see or be a trans woman, that's actually some serial rapist in a clever disguise or something. Which, yeah, fits the same ecological niche as claiming
in a damn police report that black teenagers are all secretly the Incredible Hulk and who knows how many bullets it'll take to stop them once they transform.
Wildly absurd claims no serious person is ever going to believe, but serious people aren't the audience. The audience is
fellow fascists looking for any excuse to murder people, who can play dumb after the fact and claim they're just going off what they heard in this story that was in all the newspapers.
It's like if I were to say that fascists don't actually exist, but there ARE shapeshifting
dragons who shout a bunch of bigoted garbage to clear their throats before belching out flames over crowds, so if you ever see a dragon powering up, it's imperative that you collapse their windpipe with a blunt object before they can finish. I don't believe it, you don't believe
it, but if we both committed to the bit hard enough, you could crush a whole lot of windpipes while explaining to everyone that you're just trying to keep the world safe from dragon fire.
Might not keep you out of prison, but but enough people would pretend along with you for a
sense of safety strong enough to start carrying that big metal pipe around with you everywhere.
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So I'm still a bit stuck on the whole thing where some far right fraudster made up a story about seeing "a man pretending to be a woman" in a famously trans exclusive spa in order to spark off nazi violence in the area. Both because it's horrible and still an active danger, but
also because it so perfectly illustrates how the sort of people who freak the hell out about trans people are always doing so as some sort of weird abstract thought exercise, when in reality they've never even seen one of us in the wild, at least knowingly.
Let's break this down
I'm assuming if you're reading this, you're up to speed on this incident. If you're not, go educate yourself on your own and come back.
The whole thing we can say, I'd hope, at this point, beyond a reasonable doubt, was completely staged. The woman freaking out was freaking out
So today's quick glance at my feed shows that a whole hell of a lot of people just within the past day or two had their first encounter with a bigot referring to herself as a "trans widow."
"Widow" means "woman whose spouse has died," so "trans widow" thus means "trans woman
whose spouse has died" and there is absolutely no circumstance, not even when when talking about bigots creative language choices, where it is ever remotely OK to use that phrase to mean anything other than that, and absolutely fuck anyone who ever does so, you horrible monsters.
Obviously, when bigots appropriate the term, they use it to mean something completely different, but now that you've read the above let's proceed just saying The Term, shall we?
Anyway bigots use The Term to describe hypothetical cis women who somehow manage to marry trans women
I really don't want to jump to conclusions but I'm pretty darn sure an increasing amount of the feedback this thread is getting today is coming from the teens that undercover fascists have been spreading the lie that queer is a slur to.
have enough followers that I'm going to see the statistical outliers leaving comments, but for real kids. I am like twice your age, and the usage of "queer" as a slur was already basically extinct before I was born, and never had any magical extra hateful connotation that isn't
still present when people use "gay" derisively.
The only reason to find one more offensive than the other is if you consider being any of the other various identities under the umbrella to be objectively worse things than being gay, and it is, in fact, not OK to think that.
You know what would be cool? Normalize just saying "queer" whenever you're broadly referring to queer people. It's a single syllable, it covers everyone, and it shuts down several different disinformation campaigns/bigoted dog whistles.
It's also less confusing all around.
LGBTQIA+ already has a lot of redundancy to it. Written out longform that's Lesbian, Gay (and honestly it's a little weird we have two different terms for roughly-exclusively same-gender attracted especially when only the one is really functonally gendered), Bi/Pan (into multiple
genders), Transgender (pretty straightforward), Queer (a really good catch-all that covers literally anything any of these other letters do plus a lot of other things, some of which don't really have specific terms established), Intersex (again, pretty basic), Asexual/Aromantic
Here's a subject I haven't really gotten directly sermonizing about for a bit, in large part because of the chilling effect of what I'm going to lay out in the rest of this thread.
For a good long while, one of the most popular public faces of the modern fascist movement was a
creep whose name I'd prefer not to directly invoke, both because I know it's still a trauma trigger, and because he changed his name to a long one from a culture he does not actually have roots in with the intent of encouraging people to normalize racist parodies of it. Wrote for
Breitbart, bunch of scandals, you probably remember him.
And you may also remember, or maybe not, that the moment the tide turned on him and his ability to get anyone to pay him any attention started to plummet when, in doing a background check because he was slated to speak at
I'm still not in a place where I feel safe looking at this here website, which means I've been doing a lot more binging of youtube stuff to keep me distracted, and somewhere in doing that my better judgement lost out and I watched this here "Mask Off" video from Lindsay Ellis and
A- This felt like seriously cheating on my big break from looking at this awful website.
B- This is a very bad video that she really should not have produced and uploaded and I'm a bit compelled now to get into it, again, against my better judgement.
Apologies if I'm preaching
to the choir, and also I cannot stress enough that I am not trying to open a dialog/start crap/anything else like that here.
I would advise against watching the video for context because, again, it is very bad, and no good can come of that, and it's worth noting that I have no