"I make sure my mental software programming is always up to date"
Implicit in these comments is the fear of being "out of the loop."
Upper middle class people have apps on their phones that deliver bite-sized news items. They listen to the right podcasts and read the right periodicals, so they always know the talking points of the day
In the season 7 premiere of Mad Men, Freddy Rumsen pitches a TV ad of a young businessman who wears an expensive watch, and suddenly becomes the most interesting person in the room
Freddy says the tagline, “Accutron: It’s not a time piece, it’s a conversation piece.”
I was suspended, didn't do homework, detention, etc. Never had to repeat a grade, but I probably should have given how little effort I put in nypost.com/2020/02/08/how…
"one might expect that adopted children would do well in school...adoptive families tend to be better off financially than other families with children. This is partly due to self-selection and partly to the screening that adoptive parents must go through" ifstudies.org/blog/the-adopt…
“Beginning in the late sixties, Helmut Kentler, one of the most influential sexologists in Germany, placed neglected children in foster homes run by pedophiles. The experiment was authorized and financially supported by the government.” newyorker.com/magazine/2021/…
“Kentler was inspired by the Marxist psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich, who had argued that the free flow of sexual energy was essential to building a new kind of society…Kentler came to believe that sexual repression was key to understanding the Fascist consciousness.”
“these foster homes were run by sometimes powerful men who lived alone and who were given this power by academia, research institutions and other pedagogical environments that accepted, supported or even lived out pedophile stances”
“the disintegration of the Soviet Union was one of the most astonishing events in modern history…The largest and most threatening empire in the world, with 5 million soldiers in Soviet garrisons from Budapest to Vladivostok, fell apart in just 6 years” nytimes.com/2002/01/20/boo…
Dark personality traits like manipulation, egocentricity, and callousness (for men) increase throughout adolescence, peak in young adulthood, and gradually decline with age
Young people's behavior is often attributed to moral idealism. Yet younger adults score higher on the Dark Triad than older adults, and appear to be more cynical. Perhaps the actions attributed to moral idealism are instead driven by less pleasant motives
"there is a hierarchy of classes, and the manners and traditions learned by each class in childhood are not only different but generally persist from birth to death...It is very difficult to escape, culturally, from the class into which you have been born" amzn.to/3qUTdKh
Gatsby: “The only respectable thing about you, old sport, is your money. Your money, that's it. Now I've just as much as you. That means we're equal.”
Tom Buchanan: “No. We were born different from you. It's in our blood. Nothing that you do or dream up will ever change that.”
Pierre Bourdieu posited the concept of “ease.” When you grow up in a social class and come to embody it, you represent its tastes and values so deeply that you exhibit "ease" within it. Impossible to learn as an adult. Bourdieu, like Fitzgerald, says you must be born into it.