The 5 Stages of watching #MyUnorthodoxLife

Denial: The Orthodoxy @JuliaHaart describes doesn’t exist - certainly not in Monsey.

Anger: She’s a sellout, a narcissist, a horrible parent.

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Bargaining: If we create a hashtag emphasizing our own happiness and contentment, we will eclipse Haart’s story.

Depression: My community actually does alienate some of its members; even I, occasionally, feel excluded.

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Acceptance: Orthodoxy can be both meaningful and stifling. I can make my small corner of the community more welcoming and appealing, even as I can’t banish all bad experience.

3/3

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A #TishaBAv thread

Are you in possession of a family heirloom? It could be a piece of jewelry, a candlestick or chalice, an ancient book.

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The value of an heirloom extends far beyond its appraisal value. It speaks to your family’s place in history. Heirlooms remind you of legacies. They may even point you toward your destiny.

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Some heirlooms are less tangible - a poem, a tune that has been handed down, through the generations.

Today, Tish’a B’av, is one such heirloom.

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A thread, on the heels of #MyUnorthodoxLife.

Our Orthodox community fails its mission, when it articulates Tz’niyus/Modesty as just a collection of rules, imposed primarily on women, governing the clothing they wear and the manner in which they publicly conduct themselves.

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Ideally, Tz’niyus emerges from a set of values, equally relevant to men and women. We cultivate these values, when we:

1. Are mindful of how we display our gifts, especially when in the presence of those who’ve not been equally gifted.

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2. Consider which forms of affection and sexuality are best reserved for committed, intimate relationships.

3. Exercise discretion regarding sensitive material, particularly when the privacy of others is at stake.

3/3
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“A barbaric, horrific, murderous system”

Is the villainous system, the healthcare industry that should have developed a kinder more efficient way of finding rooms and placement for an obviously distressed patient?

Perhaps, our healthcare systems are overwhelmed.

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Is the villainous system the psychologists and psychiatrists who take their deeply depressed patients’ money, yet fail, ultimately, to cure them?

Perhaps, the mental health professionals actually did provide the best standard of care.

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Is the villainous system the patient’s circle of friends and relatives who failed to stay with him, who failed to enroll him, earlier, in a more intensive therapeutic setting?

Perhaps, they tried.

3/
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A thread

Friedman is guilty of the same simplistic construction of which he accuses Uris.

By focusing on the 1950s, he obscures the primarily European extraction of the early, pre-Holocaust, leaders of the Zionist movement.

@OMTorah

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theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/…
Let me be clear: As Jews, their/our birthright was and remains Israel. I say this, even as I understand that our Arab neighbors do not buy into the religio-cultural assumptions that have carried us through the millennia.

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Nor do our Arab neighbors assign the same meaning to the extensive archaeological record that demonstrates an early and continued Jewish presence in Israel.

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A thread on accountability:

One of the most telling communications, about the Meron tragedy, comes from a unique source.

Mansour Abbas, Islamist Israeli politician, expresses a deep sense of pain for those he terms the Korbanot - the sacrificial offerings.

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What does the tragic loss of life, in Meron, have to do with Korbanot? Has anyone willingly engaged in human sacrifice?

The answer might surprise you.

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I remember when the urgent late night Tehillim call came in. There was still a group of us in the Beis Medrash.

It’s hard to believe that 35 years have passed.
I remember, as well, how all types of Jews converged, mostly via subway, on the Lower East Side.

We were already shell shocked, with Rav Yaakov having passed away, just 2 weeks earlier.
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