Sexual compatibility isn't about sexual compatibility
All adult penises and vaginas are "compatible"
(Excepting some unusually sized specimens)
What we are really asking is something else, something deeper, so lets look into that
2/ When a man asks, "how do I know if she is sexually compatible with me?" he means, "will she fulfil MY sexual needs?" or "does she have a sex drive to match my own?"
A reasonable question
Men have 10x to 20x the testosterone of women and a correspondingly higher sex drive
3/ The good news is that a loving, submissive, eager to please women isn't going to leave you sexually frustrated, even if she's not "in the mood"
For most couples with healthy sex lives it is the man who usually initiates sex, this is normal
Men leading is healthy for both
4/ A real problem: Porn
Due to porn many men have developed unrealistic expectations and extreme fetishes
Many men crave things that are not even physically possible or healthy for a woman
This can even happen to married men
Dealing with your porn addiction is the only way
5/ Even so called "vanilla" porn distorts reality, creating unfulfillable expectations
Bringing those expectations into a relationship will damage it, perhaps beyond repair
Bring your expectations in line with reality BEFORE you enter into a relationship revoy-qpmc-gift.carrd.co
6/ When a woman asks, "how do I know if he is sexually compatible with me?" she means, "will he fulfil MY emotional and safety/security needs?"
Getting a woman off easy, they can even do it themselves, they dont *need* men for that
What they need is protective masculine energy
7/ Just as porn has warped mens ideas about sex, romance movies, novels and women's magazines have warped women's ideas about relationships and men
If a woman expects a man to constantly entertain, coddle and make her the centre of his attention she will be very disappointed
8/ A woman who understands what she NEEDS vs what popular media says she should WANT will feel fulfilled
A stable relationship will allow her to blossom sexually, deeply connecting and enjoying the experience with her husband
This takes time and commitment and cant be "tested"
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In a marriage sexual compatibility (or chemistry) between a man & a woman is the direct result of other types of relationship compatibility which can be vetted for without the need to have intercourse.
Know how to spot a good lover.
2/ Sexual polarity is key.
Masculine men want feminine women and vice versa.
You will be most attracted to someone who is as far from neutral (androgynous) as you are.
The greater the sexual dimorphism the greater the attraction and the sexual energy in the relationship.
3/ The tension between the masculine and feminine builds energy.
Greater sexual energy will lead to more satisfying sexual releases.
With poor polarity it can take a long time to build up enough sexual energy for a great release, or sex may be more often but less fulfilling.
Teasing is a lot of fun, even in a mature relationship
The problem is most men dont know how to tease properly
Healthy teasing is all about emotional play, dominance and imagination
It shouldn't use negative language or putdowns
It can elevate both
Teasing is sexy for women because it
✅ demonstrates a mans frame and intelligence
✅ feeds her desires for attention
✅ stimulates a womans imagination (play)
✅ has emotional impact and excitement
✅ gives her "permission" to act out fantasy
✅ breaks up potential monotony
Men: Healthy teasing comes from a positive masculine frame, lead the tease
If you are ashamed, fearful or timid you are likely to slip into negative teasing
If you are bold, confidant and strong it elevates you and your thinking
In days long past our ancestors lived in the Chaos of nature, under constant threat from weather, wild beasts and wild men.
Only by coming together and Federating into communities were they able to turn the tide and begin to hold their own. They discovered natural roles for each member of society, one way that roles were divided was between Men and Women.
They developed the Patriarchy and the Matriarchy for their protection and organisation.
- Its going to be a yearly occurrence (credit @TheEmpalador).
- It will gut the third world and the inner cities.
- People who can will move into small, closed communities in the countryside, in-group preferences will flourish.
- Group schooling (public and private) as well as universities will become a thing of the past, replaced by online courses.
- With children at home gender roles will normalise and demand for the return of a fractal western Patriarchy will grow.
- Public entertainment will end.
- Travel for pleasure will end.
- Immigration will be reversed as left leaning urban centres are depopulated, rural populations will grow again.
- People start looking more suspiciously at everyone who is not in their group.
- Local, automated manufacturing will replace imports.