Thread by @NoahRevoy

1/ SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY PART 2: A THREAD

Sexual compatibility isn't about sexual compatibility

All adult penises and vaginas are "compatible"

(Excepting some unusually sized specimens)

What we are really asking is something else, something deeper, so lets look into that

2/ When a man asks, "how do I know if she is sexually compatible with me?" he means, "will she fulfil MY sexual needs?" or "does she have a sex drive to match my own?"

A reasonable question

Men have 10x to 20x the testosterone of women and a correspondingly higher sex drive

3/ The good news is that a loving, submissive, eager to please women isn't going to leave you sexually frustrated, even if she's not "in the mood"

For most couples with healthy sex lives it is the man who usually initiates sex, this is normal

Men leading is healthy for both

4/ A real problem: Porn

Due to porn many men have developed unrealistic expectations and extreme fetishes

Many men crave things that are not even physically possible or healthy for a woman

This can even happen to married men

Dealing with your porn addiction is the only way

5/ Even so called "vanilla" porn distorts reality, creating unfulfillable expectations

Bringing those expectations into a relationship will damage it, perhaps beyond repair

Bring your expectations in line with reality BEFORE you enter into a relationship
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6/ When a woman asks, "how do I know if he is sexually compatible with me?" she means, "will he fulfil MY emotional and safety/security needs?"

Getting a woman off easy, they can even do it themselves, they dont *need* men for that

What they need is protective masculine energy

7/ Just as porn has warped mens ideas about sex, romance movies, novels and women's magazines have warped women's ideas about relationships and men

If a woman expects a man to constantly entertain, coddle and make her the centre of his attention she will be very disappointed

8/ A woman who understands what she NEEDS vs what popular media says she should WANT will feel fulfilled

A stable relationship will allow her to blossom sexually, deeply connecting and enjoying the experience with her husband

This takes time and commitment and cant be "tested"