A thread that I think lots of authors will like to see. I was at @TIGERS_UK today and there were lots of boxes in the corner, with @Waterstones written on . “Oooh! What’s in those??” I asked nosily. Here follows only a wee taste of the answer!
3. Your books were in the boxes too, @Markfinnis@BDPerry & @DrDanSiegel . I understand the order was placed because I’ve read from each of these during training events with the @TIGERS_UK team over the past year.
THREAD: Boarding school
Today's @guardian contains an excerpt from the latest book soon to be published on the emotional devastation caused to so many boys by early boarding school -- boys that grow into the leaders of this country. theguardian.com/education/2021…
2. "Several times a year, our attachments to home & family were broken. We lost everything – and we could cry if we liked but no one would help us. So, LATER IN LIFE, WHEN WE SAW OTHER PEOPLE CRY, WE FELT NO GREAT NEED TO GO TO THEIR AID." theguardian.com/education/2021…
3. When you have a government filled with leaders who do not have the empathy to feel the pain of people they govern, then you hv an emotionally corrupt political system. Boarding school becomes dangerous not just for the damaged boys grown into men. It is dangerous for everyone.
THREAD. What does the science tell us happens whn children start formal schooling too young (like early 4)? That’s what t @GiveTimeScot campaign, led by Scottish parents, is trying hard to get the rest of us to ask too. Here are some insights. Note: it’s not comfortable reading.
2. Children who are the youngest in their class struggle to make friends. 2019 study.
“Worse development of social skills and relationships in the long-term, which affects well-being and success in the labour market.” independent.co.uk/life-style/you…
3. Youngest children in a class more diagnosed with ADHD. 2019 study.
“Younger children may find it harder to concentrate in class, leading to increased diagnoses of hyperactivity = inferior academic performance & poorer peer relationships.” webmd.com/add-adhd/news/…
THREAD. In my work on the consequences of relational experiences in childhood, I walk a line in which I try to do two things: 1) offer hope &relief &solutions; 2) foster urgency, trying to get us to see uncomfortable insights.
This is a thread on the latter - on fear in America.
2. The much respected voice @umairh has just published this piece: "American Fascism is becoming American Nazism".
You might think: "What?? In America? I know its bad, but its not that bad. The Democrats have just been elected." Think again.
3. When I was little, I went through a period where I read everythng I could get my hands on about Nazi Germany. What I was tryng to understnd was how it happened. Why didn't people just stand up to such terrible unfairness? I had to wait a long time to understnd t power of fear.
Alexander McCall Smith @McCallSmith , You were asking at tonight's @acdTuesdayTalks about mirror neurons as the basis for human morality. Below are a few pieces that explore how these are being linked. Your thinking is spot on. And yes, Hume & Smith would have been fascinated.
2. "The study confirms that genuine concern for others’ pain plays a causal role in moral dilemma judgments. In other words, a person’s refusal to [act] is due to concern for [the other person], not just their own discomfort in taking an action." newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/mirro…
3. "The paper argues that mirror neurons provide a more direct route to other minds, empathy, and moral motivation that complements the more familiar route based on conscious, verbal inference." researchgate.net/publication/24…
THREAD on conspiracy theories & attachment.
I keep seeing frustrated social media posts asking why people believe conspiracy theories. Answer: It gives a sense of control - includng belonging, predictability & safety. It's emotional regulation. Here's research to unpack that.
2. "Participants with an 'ambivalent attachment style' were more likely to believe in conspiracy theories....The findings add further evidence that attachment not only influences how a person interacts with others, but also influences world views." 2018 sciencedaily.com/releases/2018/…
3. "People have a strong need to feel positive abt the groups they belong, such as their nationality, political party & religious group. A conviction that others conspire against one's group is more likely to emerge when the group feels undervalued." 2019 onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.111…
THREAD. I just spent 1.5 hours on the phone to a journalist, talking about what needs to happen in our whole culture to help address the problem of our drugs deaths. I used the phrase “fierce curiosity” about 300 times. The problem isn’t drugs. The problem is blaming & shaming.
2. We need to change how we see things. We need examples of people & organisations who show us how to do that. What examples did I give her?
3. I talked about @PitteucharE & @JKnussen who changed their language from “challenging behaviour” to “distressed behaviour”. The language change takes away the blame and requires adults to get curious.