Be even more Charming
- 8 Golden Keys 🔑 -

// A Thread //

No. 5 is my favourite. What's yours?
1. BRUSH UP YOUR LISTENING

Instead of talking about yourself, focus on the other person.

Listen with 100% of your unidvided attention.

Understand, don't interrupt, don't brag, don't answer.

What else can you do to help them feel better?
2. BREED RESPECT

Eye contact, sincerity and manners.

Use them to connect, foster an aura of respect.

When you respect them, they respect you.

Treat them well and they'll love you.

Progress to become even more charming.
3. HAND & BODY TALK

Hands & body must match your words.

Smile, express yourself, make your actions real.

The more you do it, the more your charm shines.
4. AUTHENTIC CONNECTIVITY

Nothing can replace your authenticity.

And when it connects and the other person really gets you,

Be aware of your unstoppable charm phenomenon,

WARNING: You will feel really, really awesome!
5. MIMIC

Probably the greatest Charm Superhack.

When the other person smiles, you smile.
When they nod, you nod.

Don't make it too obvious and do it with genuine interest.

Create a positive feedback loop-bond.

Harness the essence of true Charm.
6. USE THEIR NAME

Remember their name and your charisma glows.

Say her name to make her feel special.

Use his name intentionally,
without overdoing it and he'll feel special.

Leave a lasting impression.

Make them feel that you have made their day.
7. THE PLATINUM RULE

You've heard of the golden rule,
but Platinum goes much further.

Don't treat people how they wish to be treated,
rather treat them how they WANT to be treated.

Go one step further,
personalize the experience.

Make their WANTS come true.
8. TOUCH

Touch selectively to show you care.

Don't go overboard, but using touch selectively
helps increase the sense of trust
it makes you friendlier.

Touch their skin to touch their hearts.

Turn on that charm!
THE CHARM SUMMARY:

1. Brush up Your Listening
2. Breed Respect
3. Hand & Body Talk
4. Authentic Connectivity
5. Mimic
6. Use Their Name
7. The Platinum Rule
8. Touch

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