Someone in my town was sent this today cos they bought a caravan!

It reminded me that my old neighbour used to come out & ask me how I afforded the weekly shop, and told me he had reported me to the social, told me I was fiddling the system, asked me how I afforded my car etc.
I moved away from there in 2019, but for 9 years he asked me how I afforded everything from shopping to my car. I kept telling him that I worked full time but he didn’t believe me. One time he came out and waved the Daily Mail in face and told me that scum like me rinse tax payer
My neighbour did actually report me over and over but I was working, so I used to just get occasional letters saying they wouldn’t be investigating further lmao

He used to watch me unload the car with shopping and kids and tell me I was a fraud lol
Anyway, turned out in the end that he did it because I had a stokie accent and I was a young mum so he was absolutely convinced that I was falsely claiming benefits.

Honestly the classism disgusts me.
Money is so weird isn’t it?

You’re bullied if you’re poor, you’re seen as not good enough, you’re put under immense pressure to earn more, work more, own more, and then when you do (these people bought a used caravan), they are mercilessly attacked and criticised 🙄

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1 Sep
I have to make this clear as a professional working in sexual abuse for over a decade:

If a child begins to hate, mutilate or harm their genitals, it’s a HUGE red flag for sexual abuse. That’s the main priority, not identity.

Safeguard immediately.

mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/t…
I very much doubt that this 3 year old was having some sort of deep identity crisis about the debate around sex and gender.

This is a child self-mutilating because there is something happening to them and they are in severe distress.

This is actually quite common.
You are not a bad professional, social worker, psychologist or therapist for recognising classic signs of sexual trauma in children. It doesn’t make you bigoted or harmful.

Loads of us have worked in abuse cases where children have done this, and it’s vital we pay attention
Read 10 tweets
31 Aug
I’m shocked that this sham trial is going ahead when women are faced with actual hate crimes on this platform every day & no one can get the police to do a damn thing about rape & death threats, doxxing, harassment or stalking.

#IStandWithMarionMillar #WomenWontWheesht
Thank you so much to all of the women who have been there today and travelled from all over the UK to support Marion. This trial is performative AF and we all know it. I hope she finds there is no case to answer, but this abuse and harassment of women has to end.
The CPS is on its arse, can’t even prosecute rapists properly. We provide them with reams of threats and abusive messages and it’s all ‘we can’t prove who is behind the account’ and ‘you can’t prove they actually tweeted that though’ - but prosecuting women seems a doddle
Read 4 tweets
29 Aug
It’s clear that lesbians, the concept of same sex attraction, the description of lesbians, and the word ‘lesbian’, is silently being removed from publications, articles, events and social media.

Young women don’t even dare call themselves a lesbian.
This is terrifying.
Someone contacted me yday to say that the word ‘lesbian’ is offensive because it’s exclusionary and I genuinely don’t have the energy to deal with how fucking homophobic that is, and why this argument is never slung at gay men who love men.
Someone else told me that young women don’t want to ID as a ‘lesbian’ because they don’t want to be perceived as offensive or bigoted, even when they are only attracted to females.

They’re so worried they’ll be attacked and abused for being same sex attracted.
Read 5 tweets
28 Aug
Absolutely gutted to read through the entire @BritLGBTAwards nominees to see that they have not used the word ‘lesbian’ once, even to describe the lesbian nominees.

Gay, queer, trans, fluid and bi are all used, but the word ‘lesbian’ is completely omitted.

Why is this?
I was really interested to find their Instagram account and was enjoying looking through the profiles of all the nominees and their top 10 lists, until I noticed that even ‘out’ lesbians were not being described as lesbians.

I decided to work through the whole account
Where there are lesbian nominees, they omit the detail completely - and instead vaguely discuss ‘their sexuality’. The gay men are described as gay men, or bi men, or trans etc.

How can you claim to be championing LGBT rights and visibility if you won’t say LESBIAN?
Read 8 tweets
27 Aug
Misogyny disgusts me to my core.

‘The vagina is just an inverted penis’ is a fucking old ass stupid myth from the 17th century - the same time men thought the uterus would detach and float around the body attacking women’s brains to make them ‘insane’.

Stop this utter bullshit.
My female body isn’t an inside out defective upside down dick.
If the vagina is just an inverted penis then why can you give birth through your fucking dick hole?

Why can’t your stretch your fucking dick?

God I’m so angry
Read 4 tweets
26 Aug
What’s the scientific thinking/consensus around how long we will continue to ‘battle’ Covid before we realise that this is going to continue forever like every other virus with multiple evolving strains?
And when will the vitriol, abuse and hatred towards unvaccinated people end? We have never been like this with other viruses. It’s starting to look inhumane at this point. Even people who can’t have it for medical reasons are being treated like they are ‘unclean’
I saw someone call people who can’t get vaccinated ‘disgusting Petri dishes of COVID’ last week and it’s stuck with me.

Why have we developed such a hatred? Have we been coerced and groomed into this?
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