1. The art of communication- Not just communication but communicating effectively. Are you wondering why your messages are never replied? You just might be talking to yourself....
Learn the art of effective communication; both written and spoken and you'll be surprised at how
Learn the art of effective communication; both written and spoken and you'll be surprised at how
2. you'll get everything you want from people almost everytime.
When you want to send a DM to someone you don't know and you need something from, write on a notepad first and let everything be in a message. You're unlkely to get any response to "hello," "salam" "hey"
When you want to send a DM to someone you don't know and you need something from, write on a notepad first and let everything be in a message. You're unlkely to get any response to "hello," "salam" "hey"
3. You don't need to be asking them about the weather and whether they've eaten. You're the one that contacted them. State your message after basic pleasantries. E.g
"Good evening Dr. Gold. I hope you've had a good day? My name is Buhari Usman and I'd like to know if there's a
"Good evening Dr. Gold. I hope you've had a good day? My name is Buhari Usman and I'd like to know if there's a
4. a dermatologist in Bauchi and if you can let me know how to get in touch. Thank you for your time."
- Basic pleasantries
- Intent
- Good closing.
If your DMs have not been responded to, it just might be because you keep sending "hi" and "hey" without stating what YOU want!
- Basic pleasantries
- Intent
- Good closing.
If your DMs have not been responded to, it just might be because you keep sending "hi" and "hey" without stating what YOU want!
5. I love to write and teach. That's why I use this place often. But once I'm done, I log off for hours. My time and space is something I'm very protective of. Another reason why your messages may not be replied? "Hello, your beauty is intoxicating me. I love you." Edakun fa🙄
6. Stay away from unnecessary endearments except you're close to the person. When in Rome, behave like the Romans. Conform to the environment (not that you should lose your own self) and be a part of it.
7. Lose the, "my dear" when you're speaking with people especially if you don't have any personal relationship with them...
Nobody was born with all the skills. You can learn it too! The only time you don't need to improve on a present version of yourself, is if you're dead.
Nobody was born with all the skills. You can learn it too! The only time you don't need to improve on a present version of yourself, is if you're dead.
8. You're still alive, aren't you?
If you can, don't let it be about financial favors each time you're contacting someone. Don't let your name be synonyous with, "muwa" (bring) all the time. No matter how little, provide value. Else you become the person people avoid from afar.
If you can, don't let it be about financial favors each time you're contacting someone. Don't let your name be synonyous with, "muwa" (bring) all the time. No matter how little, provide value. Else you become the person people avoid from afar.
9. Try it next time you want to send a message to someone you don't know and you need to ask a favor from. It has worked for me almost every time.
Just lose the one liners. They didn't ask you to contact them. You did. So, state your mission.
Just lose the one liners. They didn't ask you to contact them. You did. So, state your mission.
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