I have read the sentencing remarks in the case of R v Drummond [2021] NSWDC 510 and I feel disgusted by the way that privilege amounts to getting away with assault.
The Judge gave #NicholasDrummond a “free pass”. This is what I would have said if I was the Judge...
1. This is an appeal by Nicholas Drummond following his conviction before a Magistrate sitting at Hornsby Local Court on 21 July past.
2. Mr Drummond, you have had almost every conceivable privilege possible afforded to you in your life of 20 years thus far.
3. You attended Sydney’s Knox Grammar School, were the product of a relationship in which your parents had, until recently, remained together. You have a loving relationship with your siblings.
4. You have had the privilege of coaching sport to young children in a sport that you are passionate about and for which you receive considerable respect and admiration from your peers
5. The details of your offence have been documented, but for the sake of completeness I shall summarise them thusly: On the night of X, you were at The Greengate Hotel at Killara with a group of friends, whereupon you made lewd and inappropriate remarks to a young woman.
6. You commented on her appearance, her clothing and dehumanised her with your comments, which were, in full, to “tell her to put her tits away” and to effectively call her a “slut” for her choice of clothing.
7. It was argued that you attended an educational environment in which such attire may be seen as provocative. I reject this notion as it has no bearing on your decision to comment on this woman.
8. It was argued that you viewed the woman taking a photograph of you on her phone after you had called her the words mentioned above as an act of provocation. I reject this notion as it has no bearing on your decision to snatch her phone out of her hands and stomp on it.
9. It was your decision, and your decision alone, to verbally abuse the woman and subsequently refuse to issue an apology.
10. These events have unfolded against a backdrop of, what I understood to be, difficult personal circumstances.
11. I understand that amid these circumstances you have sought support, but these actions do not mitigate your behaviour.
12. For too long, Courts have taken a lenient view in terms of men’s violence against women, and it is a view that I depart from in ideology and practice.
13. Your actions were unprovoked, undeserved and led to consequences for your victims not only during the events in question, but ongoing psychological and emotional injury from which they will take time to recover.
14. This court condemns your actions and affirms the trial judge’s finding that courts must act to deter individuals from taking such actions.
15. Your appeal is dismissed and your conviction stands.
16. You are excused.
Instead, Nicholas Drummond's actions were viewed as a "one-off" aberration and the judge excused Drummond's actions.
Disgusting.
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When lockdown is lifted and Chadstone Shopping Centre @fashion_capital reopens, I’m going, dressed like a Prince. No, not the British kind of Prince. Like a Maharaja. Let me tell you a story about why.
I grew up living right near Chadstone Shopping Centre. Whenever family visited, we always took them there and mum would proudly be like, “COME CHECK THIS OUT!”
When I was around 15 or 16, my aunt visited and we all got ready on a Sunday morning for the obligatory trip to the “Fashion Capital”
India is the country I first called home, before my parents embarked on the long and lonely journey with me in their arms, as they packed up their lives to find a new home in Australia in the 1980s.
Australia is my home now, but I feel an enduring connection to India. I feel connected to its peoples, its customs and ultimately, to India's vital and lasting contributions over millennia to world thought and culture.
It is for this reason that seeing the COVID-19 situation in India feels so tragic and heartbreaking. Beyond the personal stories of hearing about extended family members suffering from COVID-19, the country is grappling with a catastrophe.
After seeing a common response to my comments on the killing of #KellyWilkinson, I want to clear up a misconception. Those who claim that I blame all men for men’s violence or violence against women have fundamentally missed my point.
Perhaps, from otherwise noble intentions, they have misunderstood what I’ve been saying all along: I don’t say all men are violent or that all men are to blame for the actions of others. I say all men are responsible for helping end violence against women. There’s a difference.
We live in a culture that continues to mistreat women. Stress harassment, workplace inequality, unequal representation. A culture where men commit the overwhelming majority of violence, regardless of the gender of the victim. This doesn’t occur in a vacuum.
#HERNAMEIS KELLY WILKINSON
At 7am this morning, police attended a Gold Coast home where they found the body of Kelly Wilkinson tied and burnt. Kelly's three children all aged under 9 were inside the home.
Queensland police have charged a 34-year-old man with murder and breaching a domestic violence order.
Before someone comments #NotAllMen, let me abundantly clear: All men play a responsibility in addressing the attitudes that lead to men's violence against women.
Kelly Wilkinson's death was preventable. She had a domestic violence order taken out against this man. Yet the degree of men's entitlement that leads to such crimes must be addressed at every level.
Reminder that Ralph Lauren is pronounced 'Lauren' not 'Loren'. Ralph Lauren was born Ralph Lifshitz, the son of Jewish immigrants from Belarus. He changed his name to 'Lauren' in the mid-1950s before he began selling the idea of elite American lifestyle back to the Americans.
This is what Ralph Lauren looks like, dressed in a double-breasted black silk, wool and mohair tuxedo with grosgrain facings, broad peak lapels and a structured shoulder.
Every day I worked in menswear, I would meet well-to-do bankers and similar men, who would say 'Loren' as a means of sounding "classier", The beautiful, hilarious irony of it was that they came across uninformed on who Ralph Lauren is, his brand and the identity behind it.
1/ Today is 32 years to the day since my parents moved to Australia and brought little infant me along with them. I spent my childhood riding my bike in my favourite gum boots, wearing my Australia sweater and Stack Hat helmet.
2/ In 2020 Australia, people who look like me rarely, if ever, get elected to positions of power and decision-making. We’re rarely, if ever, in positions where our differences are celebrated and not criticised.
3/ In 2020 Australia, as we live with the fear and threat of #COVID19, and the treatment of those seeking a safe haven in Australia is an indelible mark against our nation, I’ve been thinking about what skin colour means in today’s Australia.