The Psychology Of Touch You Should Know.
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Importance Of Physical Touch.
- It releases the happy chemicals - dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin in your brain.
- It lowers your stress hormone and reduces feelings of stress.
- It makes you relax.
- It puts you in the mood to listen and builds immediate rapport.
- It releases the happy chemicals - dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin in your brain.
- It lowers your stress hormone and reduces feelings of stress.
- It makes you relax.
- It puts you in the mood to listen and builds immediate rapport.
How To Apply The Touch That Will Turn A Stubborn NO into a happy YES.
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1. Notice Their Body Language.
- If they're standing tall and have a positive facial expression, they're open to being touched.
- If they're hunched over, focused away , or crossing their arms, they will not be receptive to touch.
- A quick way to check is to offer handshake.
- If they're standing tall and have a positive facial expression, they're open to being touched.
- If they're hunched over, focused away , or crossing their arms, they will not be receptive to touch.
- A quick way to check is to offer handshake.
2. It Must Be Delivered To The Upper Arm.
- This is the rule for touching someone you don't know well.
- When dealing with strangers, space between the elbow and the shoulder is generally considered the "safe zone".
- Deliver this touch with an accompanying handshake.
- This is the rule for touching someone you don't know well.
- When dealing with strangers, space between the elbow and the shoulder is generally considered the "safe zone".
- Deliver this touch with an accompanying handshake.
3. It Must Be Quick.
- Don't linger for more than a moment.
- It would be awkward if you give thinking about your actions and extending your arms to touch the opposite person.
- Don't linger for more than a moment.
- It would be awkward if you give thinking about your actions and extending your arms to touch the opposite person.
4. It Must Be Done From Very Close Range.
- You should be no more than 3/4 of an arm's length from the person.
- It never feels awkward at this distance.
- You should be no more than 3/4 of an arm's length from the person.
- It never feels awkward at this distance.
5. It Must Be Delivered With Confidence.
- You feel comfortable around people who are confident.
- When you go for it, go for it.
- Never go for it if the rest of your body language is projecting insecurity.
- You feel comfortable around people who are confident.
- When you go for it, go for it.
- Never go for it if the rest of your body language is projecting insecurity.
6. It Must Be Delivered With Eye Contact.
- Eye contact helps you seem confident and sincere.
- Eye contact helps you seem confident and sincere.
7. It Must Be Delivered Without Pressure.
- The right time to touch is during a first introduction.
- If you are explaining and trying to persuade some one who's not open to your request, you might be too late.
- It may come off as unwelcome and manipulative.
- The right time to touch is during a first introduction.
- If you are explaining and trying to persuade some one who's not open to your request, you might be too late.
- It may come off as unwelcome and manipulative.
8. It Must Be Delivered With Smile.
- Communication between people is completely non-verbal.
- Make sure the rest of your body is delivering a welcoming vibe before you touch, no matter what you're saying.
- Communication between people is completely non-verbal.
- Make sure the rest of your body is delivering a welcoming vibe before you touch, no matter what you're saying.
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