Okay somehow I have become a person with cool friends. Some of my cool friends own a womxn of color retreat in Virginia, nickname…baehouse. instagram.com/baehouseva?utm…
I don’t know about the next formal retreat but you can book Baehouse any time.
You can also check out Black-owned Abundant Life Adventure Club. Based in Nashville, they host a lot of outdoor adventures nature-oriented retreats. abundantlifeadventure.club
Oh and (black-owned) Camp Yoshi for more planned and active outdoor excursions. May not be as relaxing as a retreat? But some of y’all are less lazy than I am. campyoshi.com
As you can tell I, uh, have an interest.
Another one. Not nature based but Black-owned and focused on spiritual rest. Huru Space. Discovered via @MadameNoire just today so I have not done it myself.
I’ve mentioned my friend explaining the world to me this way and how much it shifted my perspective on people. Social media obviously heightens the effect but all analog media did it to a certain degree. To many people, you are just a minor character in their life’s movie.
I have been on the receiving end of people who fixated on me as a character in their movie. Not the mundane microcelebrity stuff which I obviously developed and accept. I mean the personal stuff. It is NOT fun or flattering.
And all of it sucks but far and away the most aggressive and persistent has been from white women. Not commenting on the story at this point but the phenomenon of being the target of someone’s narcissistic script.
I know these kinds of tweets are catnip for The Discourse. I usually ignore them because they always feels like White People Problems(tm). But I feel compelled to comment on an $18k mortgage. 😂😂😂wut
Also it’s weird that people are focusing on the nanny’s salary. I assure you that the nanny is the only one in this scenario who is earning every penny of that money.
Assuming a 30 year at prime interest rate with standard down payment (which lol that’s a joke at this level), you’re talking a $5.2m or so mortgage. 😂😂
If you want to see my lose my ish, drop urgent deadlines into my workflow. I will pay triple to pull the plug every damn time. That's probably not a great way to conduct business but here I am, a flawed subject.
I do this thing where I forecast a month out, a quarter out, a year out. I know what my deadlines are. And then people will pop up with some nonsense about how you need to scan these EIGHT THINGS RIGHT NOW OR A CAT DIES and I will just get up and walk out before I entertain it.