I'm curious: for folks with teenage kids, how much autonomy do they have with devices and social media? None? Supervised use? Free reign? It obviously differs by age, let's scope this as "young teens" (13-14). Just interested to hear how other people approach this problem.
Load of interesting responses here, let me share my thoughts. Firstly, this is obviously *really* personal and we all have differences tolerances to everything from screen time to privacy to engagement with strangers on social media.
There are obviously also very big differences between individual kids and the level of responsibility they're ready for at different ages. On that, I feel adamant that decisions should be made based on maturity levels and readiness rather than arbitrary DoBs.
Ari has just turned 12. He's a very mature kid for his age and I like to introduce him to things when I feel he can handle them then supervise him closely. Part of that supervision means employing digital controls, for example Apple's parental controls on his iPhone.
But what's much more important than digital controls is parental supervision. Case in point: when he was 9, he could easily circumvent screen time to watch YouTube when he shouldn't:
For this reason (among others), I'd prefer him to use devices in the living room where @charlottelyng and I are present. That doesn't always make sense, for example he has a laptop for school and a proper desk and chair setup in his room which is ergonomically preferable...
...so we ask him to leave his door open when using it and regularly wander past. This isn't to "spy", rather to be constantly present. Because of that, he more willingly shares what he's doing, asks us questions and engages, rather than isolating himself.
His phone sits on a charger in my office and when he wants access to it, he asks permission. I *really* don't like the idea of a phone being constantly available outside of parental supervision, that's what leads to the sort of thing in the original tweet.
Beyond that, we have *a lot* of discussions about online content and particularly given what I do, he sees some pretty varied stuff. I show him data breaches and how personal data is spread. I show him some of the abuse I get and how nasty people can be online.
For now, I keep him off social media. Definitely no accounts (having one before 13 opens up all sorts of other issues), and he only sees Twitter / Insta / FB fleetingly in the context of something else (I show him a tweet or he follows a link from something he's been reading).
This works for us. It will change as he grows older and it will be different for his younger sister. More thoughts from last years blog post on 10 Digital Tips for Modern Day Parents: troyhunt.com/sharenting-byo…
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Looking forward to giving this little guy a go, plan is to emulate the RF of our IoT curtain remote (which works well), due to the utter incompetence of the wifi hub they came with (which works terribly).
45 mins later and I keep ending up on this screen. This device is infuriating!
The general consensus from the masses is "it's legit", but I'm yet to see any analysis yet. The torrent is being shared pretty extensively, it contains 278 files totalling 125GB *compressed* so it's sizeable. Here's what's inside: gist.github.com/troyhunt/0770c…
The post containing the torrent claims that Twitch is a "disgusting toxic cesspool". Whether that's motive or a convenient excuse is yet to be seen.
COVID in Australia: I’ve had a bunch of people from other parts of the world ask if we’re ok or in some cases, make derogatory comments from afar. Here’s what’s happening and what it’s actually like on the ground:
Geography first: we’re on a sparsely populated island in the middle of nowhere with a handful of major cities. Half as big again as Europe and almost the size of continental USA, but with only 25M people.
International border control is much easier than most of the world so for the most part, we locked the virus out and didn’t spread it too far when it hit. There were still outbreaks, but contained to various extents until more recently.
They're screen caps of AEs related to COVID vaccines and reported to the TGA. The page then provides the "full 73 page TGA vaccine adverse event and death report" as it 7 Aug. Without further context it seems this is intended to scare people regarding potential adverse reactions.
This is shady AF. Reading a bit further whilst writing this thread, it looks like its well and truly already hit the news too: news.com.au/technology/uni…
I’m back! Went offline for most of the last week, pics and stories to follow 🐊
Alrighty, where do I even begin on this? It’s going to be a series of photos and vids of epic scenery so if that’s not your thing, tune out now. Otherwise… it’s off to the airport:
And that was the last we saw of a mask for a long time. The Northern Territory has been largely COVID free and felt… normal. We ended up there on “Territory Day” with @TimmyTrumpet DJ’ing on the beach with the balmy 34C winter sunset, and life was good 😊