ok this is actually something I see kind of frequently:

sick person 1: I am very sick so I rely on alternative medicine because medicine/pharma has nothing for me.

sick person 2 [defensive]: I rely on med/pharma to stay functional or I would be bedbound!

sp1: I am bedbound?
it's such a weird dynamic and it's so common?

stop assuming that very sick people who are skeptical of medicine are turning to alternative options because they just haven't been that sick yet?
anyway we all need to learn to stop doing the work of ableist disbelief that divides us & holds us back. (myself included!)
(this example is not about who has it "worse", it's about how sp2 interprets sp1 as judging anybody who relies on med/pharma instead of recognizing that sp1 is disappointed in med/pharma's inability/disinterest in helping some people.)
FURTHERMORE

I understand how shitty it is when people who *are not* very sick sing the praises of miscellaneous alternative interventions. that is because those same people then turn around and tell sp1 that it's their own fault they aren't cured yet despite relying on alt med.
there are people who use anti-pharma rhetoric as a way to express their underlying opinion that Being Sick Is Bad, and there are very sick chronically ill people who are frustrated not to have any pharmaceutical treatment options and I am begging people to learn the difference.

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18 Oct
ok one more thing: whenever I am silly enough to wade into alt med discourse, it is so clear to me that we do not have a common definition for what qualifies as "alternative" other than that a lot of people use the term to discredit people who are already struggling.
is acupuncture "alternative" now it's covered by some insurance? are elimination diets "alternative" if they're never covered? are vitamins & supplements "alternative" if they've been extensively studied?

who benefits by casting something as "alternative"? "alternative" to what?
anyway I hate exploitative opportunistic quacks as much as the next chronically ill person, but you'll find them wherever there are desperate people. lots of them are selling snake oil and also lots of them are overprescribing otherwise effective drugs to every desperate patient.
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18 Oct
hi if you feel like it's more important to blanket condemn everything under the umbrella of "alternative medicine" than it is for people with un/under-treated illness to find whatever tools will help them get through the day, please just go ahead and unfollow me now.
for a lot of people the alternative to "alternative medicine" is literally nothing.

also, a lot of "alternative medicine" is well studied.

yes there is a lot of misinfo out there. there is also a lot of abuse & neglect within the system.

get on board w harm reduction or gtfo.
“alternative medicine is dangerous, you should trust your doctor!”

1. my doctor recommends safe home remedies as first line interventions all the time.

2. a lot of doctors literally refuse to diagnose hEDS/HSD specifically *because* they have no treatments to offer. so.
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18 Oct
I'm actually not sure if modern medicine deserves any credit for keeping me alive? I have had a lot of encounters with medicine but they have almost universally been unhelpful.

maybe antibiotics, I suppose, but no specific scary infection.

(re: a question tweet floating around)
over the last five years, my spouse deserves most of the credit for keeping me alive while my doctors deserve no credit at all.

cursed alchemy of survival?
I was sick a lot as a kid, just not with anything treatable (though some are vaccine preventable but I got infected too early or too young).

(aka measles, mumps, mono, multiple cases of chicken pox)
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7 Oct
the reason this gets so many hackles up is that every disabled person has had the following conversation:

disabled person: fun fact, my disability prevents me from doing XYZ.

some jerk: that sounds made up, real disabled people don't have that problem.

dp: but... I'm... real?
it's like yes, I know my disability sounds made up to you because

1. non-disabled people have been saying the same thing to me my entire life, and

2. you clearly have limited-to-no exposure to so-called real disabled people, which is pretty typical.
every single discourse about whether or not some inciting bs is ableist includes just an astounding number of people arguing that real disabled people talking about our actual problems are just trolls describing challenges no human could possibly face. 🤡
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7 Oct
if you had a 2/day pill organizer that was color coded coral & mint blue (aka an orangy red & a greeny blue) which color would you use for your morning meds if there were no labels making the decision for you?
(yes this poll is about me and my pill organizer, which I love.)
livesagely.com/product/sagely…
dang friends, my brain is currently in the minority.

I definitely chose via the association that daytime light is bluer and nighttime light is oranger. (esp on say my phone, which gets rid of blue light (?) in the evenings, so evenings are Very Orange to my brain apparently.)
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13 Aug
like the fact that I need to completely ignore all the encouragement to exercise more from my (otherwise helpful) fitness tracker is the same problem as how just about every commercial electrolyte blend is developed & branded for either exercise or the stomach flu.
do these companies somehow not know that we're using their products?

do they think explicitly marketing to us will cheapen their brand?

do they lack the cultural competence to actually work with our communities?

🤔🤔🤔
even liquid IV, which has a special coupon code for dysautonomia, does this on their packaging.

I promise you that none of these are among my priorities. (yes I know we're probably under the Wellness umbrella.) photo of a section of liqui...
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