1. Babri 92 got me questioning religion, god, and pretty quickly turning atheist.
2. Distancing myself from Hinduism was a long term process. Not until my late 20s when I started reading Ambedkar did I explicitly distance myself from Hinduism.
BTW atheism was common and acceptable in the 90s in Pune in general and my family in particular. I got zero pushback from my deeply religious dad when I said I'm not doing shubhamkaroti anymore.
It feels like today's Pune has gotten more orthodox, like harkening to Peshwai.
Until a few years ago, I saw no contradiction in the term "Hindu atheist" because I had bought into the big tent version sold on the surface by our society. Charvaka was often cited.
But once your eyes open to how integral caste is to Hinduism/sanatanism/brahminism, you can't.
Yeah, this. The "old school" sanghism was rooted more in cultural identity, casteism, and of course their core tenet - hating Muslims. It wasn't as explicitly "religious" and ritualistic. It didn't wear "dharma" on its sleeve like it does now.
I think one more step in my complete and utter solidification as an atheist was in my late 20s when I started reading and thinking and seeing in detail how science and philosophy are enough to explain morality. That it's an evolutionary construct, not a religious one.
An epiphany happened during a debate with a religious friend.
Him: All over the world, all religions teach basically the same thing. Morality. Don't lie, steal, kill etc.
Me: But then the morality is universal, biological, and religion is just the packaging!
Him: .....
Convincing myself that morality, empathy, and all the things that make a good person and good society come from evolution and can be fully explained by evolution, that took many years. Much thinking and reading.
BTW most mammals are mostly chill with each other. Without religion
Other than mating contests and territorial disputes, mammals and in fact most species get along with other members of their species. Many species have elements of morality and that basic sense of fairness. Especially primates. They have a code, a society, no religion.
All you basically need is philosophy and math, and then everything else, even science, falls into place.
Sadly, because the modern education system was designed by and put in place to primarily serve the industrial revolution, we don't teach too much philosophy in our schools. Just the absolute basics. When it should take up huge chunks of schooling. From kindergarten.
Religious schools teach their own narrow philosophies and dogma. But secular schools are more about training kids to get jobs than making them good people. Not that there's anything wrong with it. Can't contemplate Kierkegaard on an empty stomach. But just saying.
I'm not saying have first graders read Kant. But Aesop is philosophy. I remember we had a chapter in Class 4 English from Les Mis, where Jean Valjean steals the candlesticks. Our teacher went into the philosophy so beautifully. I still remember the class.
I went to a private school full of white collar mostly brahmin people. Right next to us was (still is) a government school. (Named after a sanghi BTW. It's Pune after all).
Students there were exclusively from low income and/or bahujan community. Wide disparity in means.
Teacher asked
"If you are having tiffin at recess and your classmate asks for a taste, will you give it?"
"What if someone from Deendayal walks over and asks for a taste?"
"What if they haven't eaten in days?"
"What if they snatch it from you?"
I was 9. I still remember.
P.S. is Kierkegaard the most common name brought up when someone wants to mention a random philosopher in the passing, just to impress people by showing you can spell Kierkegaard? 😂😂😂
You know, I rejected the very concept of god so early in life (13-14 or so) that I have absolutely no memory left of how I personally thought of god when I did go along with that myth in my childhood years. I wish there were a way to access those memory files.
TLDR - If more people read, study, understand evolution, we won't need religion at all. And maybe that's why religious leaders are so opposed to teaching evolution in schools.
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A #DemonetisationDisaster story I mightve tweeted before. We were on a Neeta bus from Bombay to Pune in Dec 2016. A trip I'd made 100s of times. I had told Rupal how I loved the food vendors who got on the bus in Chembur, Vashi, Lonavala. And bought their product very often.
That time though, with cash in short supply, we had to be selective. In Vashi, dude selling boiled peanuts got on. We bought the peanuts. They were great. But the bus broke down. We had to wait an hour or so until a replacement bus arrived. I started chatting with vendors.
The peanut guy remembered me as the only person on the bus who bought something from him. Most people didn't buy anything. Twas Dec 2016. But Oct 2016, people would have been buying this stuff big time. Not in Dec.
Modi decided to abolish 85% of the nation's currency overnight.
My bestie's 9 yo is writing a book and creating characters. Plot is "An angel named Angie & a demon named Charlie work together to stop a monster who is a son of the devil" and I said "wow, you are Neil himself" but the joke didn't land cos she's never read @neilhimself
Now trying to decide if it's okay to show #GoodOmens clips to a 9 y.o.
Random sanghi bros in bay area doing lazy fact-free whataboutery when if they had ever actually had any Muslim friends, they'd know that Mohammed is not at all a part of Eid celebrations. 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
How aggressively bigoted and ignorant do you have to be in 2021 to think that venerating Mohammed is a part of Eid?
It will soon be the 5 year anniversary of #DeMon. Modi WhatsApp University's greatest messaging triumph is that India is still in denial about what a stupid, selfish, and destructive move that was. People were robbed of their own money for months and they barely protested.
And BTW, I don't say this in an abstract academic sense. I was personally impacted. Had to handle a family emergency situation involving a death across 2 continents and 5 cities, while having to fly to Bombay overnight a few weeks after #DeMon. It was so bizarre and rough!
It's the first time I sang that line truly meaning it - "Aye Dil hai mushkil jeena yahaan". For the first time in my living memory, India had gotten harder than easier. And it was just the start.
After that, every trip, India gets harder than easier.
Great question!
I'm gonna answer it as someone who came to the US without any intention of immigrating here. Just get a degree and go back, was my plan.
So my number 1 reason was the universities. US university system is at a whole other level altogether. Just is!
Just generally, all things being equal, if you're looking for a university degree of any kind, USA beyond compare. Sure, there are great universities in Europe too. But on the aggregate, especially when you're applying, US universities are the best. And have great resources.
Another thing the US has is the sheer size and scale as an immigration destination. It is a MASSIVE country, economically, geographically, culturally, demographically. Gives you a lot more flexibility than if you were to move to *a* European country. Even with EU flexibility.
Foolproof recipe for making a sublime biryani. Make biryani. Put some lime slices on top. The biryani will be sub-lime. #selfthoo
Okay, here are some actual biryani tips. Keep in mind, I'm not a purist or authenticity-ist about food. I'm more into the taste and the science and the science behind the taste.
I like most biryanis. Even veg biryani. As long as it is well made. Good flavor and texture.
Over the years, I've eaten and made almost every type of biryani out there. Things that work for me:
- When cooking rice, err towards undercooking than overcooking
- meat is better brined in spices than marinated in yogurt
- Don't go overboard on the aromatics
- Steaming is key