I knew transphobic detrans activists and therapists who talked about how conversion therapy bans could ban "exploratory therapy" by mistake and guess what, that's bullshit they sprout to win over the liberals and keep anti-trans conversion therapy legal and socially permissible.
Therapists in particular often need to be careful with how they talk about what kind of therapy they want to do on trans people because they could face serious consequences if recognized as a conversion therapist. They're trying to avoid those consequences.
Course a lot of conversion therapists and pro-conversion therapy activists don't see what they're promoting as conversion therapy because they believe their methods really work. That's why you also have to look at what they're really arguing for & compare it to other cases of CT.
Trying to find the "root causes" of being trans so you can "help" a person stop being trans is conversion therapy, as is treating trans identity as a maladaptive coping mechanism developed in response to trauma. There's little to no evidence to back up this kind of "therapy".
"Exploratory therapy" can go on forever because you can always keep linking more traumatic events to being trans, you can keep coming up with more "root causes" if digging into one doesn't work out. "Exploration" never concludes that the patient is actually trans.
There's no reason aside from transphobia to believe that trans people lack the awareness and self-knowledge to know who and what we are and what we need to live well. We need autonomy over our minds and bodies, not "therapy" to fuck our heads up and convince us to deny ourselves.

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The first communities for detrans women weren't places for people who realized they "weren't really trans" but for AFAB people who believed their trans identity was rooted in trauma and misogyny and were looking for "alternative treatments for gender dysphoria".
They were "support groups" for people assigned female who experienced a trans identity they didn't want and were trying to overcome so they could "accept that they were women". "Reconciling with being female" was the "treatment" and the goal of being in such spaces.
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Anti-trans conversion therapy/practices is based on the idea that both trans identity and medical transition are unhealthy and harmful. They include attempts to change trans people's identities but also lots of promotion of "alternative treatments for gender dysphoria".
People promoting anti-trans conversion practices try to get trans people to internalize negative beliefs about transition regardless of how transitioning has actually impacted them. They try to convince trans people that transition has hurt them to get them to detransition.
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I was evaluating my life according to the values of the group, not my own happiness and well-being. When I tried to talk to another detrans woman about my dissatisfaction, she acted like I was messed up for feeling like things weren't working out. She got mad at me.
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Many cis people have an easier time seeing medical transition as harmful than seeing how detransitioning for the wrong reasons could fuck a trans person's life up. Transition as "mutilation" makes more sense to them than detransition as a kind of "conversion therapy".
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If you don’t trust trans people's ability to accurately perceive and name reality, name what our problems are, name how we're being harmed, guess what? You don’t see us as equals. Yeah, it's as bad as we say it is. We're smart enough to see what we're up against.
I hung out with anti-trans activists and other transphobic people for years. You think how some of them talk in public is bad, you should hear what they say when they're the only ones present. Everything trans people say about them is true. They're working for our elimination.
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Bilek's theories really do get around. She's not the only anti-trans conspiracy theorist but she's the most influential by far and her theories are picked up by both transphobic feminists, conservative Christians and outright Nazis and other fascists.
Plenty of transphobic feminists have no problem citing her outright. Janice Raymond's newest anti-trans book cites Bilek's writings extensively. Heather Brunskill-Evans also recently expressed support of Bilek and published writing on Bilek's blog.
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