To the people who would insinuate that I am being used by white conservatives or that I express 'right' leaning viewpoints for white acceptance, I have a question: Would you say this to a black liberal? *thread*
I find it very interesting when someone black expresses even a moderately right leaning viewpoint, there are people who would come out of their face to say that their opinion isn't really theirs. Why is that the case?
For example, on every major news network, you can find black liberals expressing liberal viewpoints and no one insinuates their usage as being inauthentic. Even on the right, I've never heard anyone claim that black liberals don't really believe what they're saying.
When someone tells me that white conservatives are only cheering for me because I validate them, I have to ask, would you say that to black liberals when white liberals cheer them on? The answer is no, you wouldn't.
The reason is because we've all accepted viewing black people as a singularly motivated group, hence, black political & social thought MUST be liberal thought.
Understand, when someone is white & conservative, they are seen as making that political decision for themselves. However, black conservatives are seen as being this way because of someone else and never for their personal interests.
Ultimately, this comes back to personal agency and how we have accepted no longer looking at black people as individuals but as a bloc of some sort. A voting bloc. A demographic. We are not allowed to practice individualism like our white counterparts without being race-traitors.
We are the only demographic that is expected to have 'leaders' who dictate the conversation for all of us throughout the mainstream media. Disagreeing with leadership is viewed as disagreeing with the black agenda, then becoming discarded for the crime of individualism.
Telling me that I am being used insinuates that my thoughts aren't my own. It insinuates that I am weak minded and haven't thought things through. It also insinuates that black people aren't capable of independent thought or genuine curiosity.
Just because white conservatives agree with me doesn't mean I am in dying need of their adulation or acceptance. I express myself as I see fit because I value my agency, meanwhile, you don't respect nor believe in the prospect of black agency.
On my own accord, I spent about 9 months writing and editing my book and to think someone would diminish my hard work by insinuating my thoughts & words aren't really mine or that they must be due to someone else's influence & for their acceptance is insulting YET I expect it.
When you claim you want to uplift 'black voices', be honest, you don't mean mine. You very much so care about the words coming from said black voice and you also subscribe to there even being an agreed upon 'black voice'.
So, I ask you, if white conservatives are allegedly using me, how are you not using liberal black people for your liberal agenda then?
I grow tired of people using black people like a political football, throwing us from one cause to another to manufacture outrage for policy change & to appear virtuous. You people are our villains pretending to be our saviors. *thread*
Since the verdict of Kyle Rittenhouse, there has been an abundance of people, especially white leftists, who feel the need to invoke black people because they don't like the way things turned out. If you are this person, fuck you.
I normally don't speak this harshly but you people always grab microphones to speak for black people as if you are our saviors. You believe you're these virtuous heavenly soldiers here to save us weak black people, when you're the exact devil we don't need.
I once had a friend, a white liberal female, who used to joke with me about woke people, post riots, suddenly sounds just like them. As we were arguing she said "Well, I listen to black voices" and I said "I'm black, does my voice matter?"
We used to have conversations about what it means to be black from a philosophical standpoint. Then suddenly, there is only one black thought. My voice was no longer acceptable. Matter of fact, I was now tainted as a friend.
This is a person that I would spend holidays with her family, hang out routinely and have long conversations with. Suddenly, my voice no longer matters as a black man because it's been overshadowed by ideologues who only see one proper way of being black.
Funny Honeymoon Story Thread: We decided to go to Turkey for a mixture of city exploring in Istanbul and beach life in Antalya.
After walking a lot in Istanbul and being sore, I figured I would throw out the idea of getting a massage while in Antalya...
We found a place nearby with good reviews. Went by early and made an appointment and clearly stated we just wanted a massage. We showed up a few hours later and they were ready for us. We changed and now wearing just a towel. There is a clear language barrier fyi...
They tell us to go into the sauna for a few. Then a man comes in with just a towel on and asks us questions in broken English. "Scrub?" We look at each other and say "massage". He says it's not extra, part of the cost we agreed upon. So we're like okay...