Thread by @AmegoAlter

If you’re dealing with a heart break, read this 🧵

A wise soul once said

“I am strong, because I’ve been weak. I am fearless, because I’ve been afraid. I am wise, because I’ve been foolish.”

We all get through that patch in life where we feel low and heart broken.

But we are to rise right? Let's look at ways to do so 👇

✨Is it really a broken “heart”?

What if it is broken “expectations”?

Wanting something from someone, and then when that doesn’t happen - you are like “I am f*cked!”

Get some air, label it right - it’s just a broken expectation. And expectations can be unfair.

Get going!

✨Hard lessons 101

Not a single moment during a heart break you’ll find it bearable.

That’s okay - you’ll have to stay strong. The question you must seek to answer is “what is it that it is teaching me?”

All things low teach something phenomenal. Something that'll upgrade you!

“The darkest night is often the bridge to the brightest tomorrow.” - Jonathan Lockwood Huie

✨Stop being a cow

What do the cows do? They ruminate.

Chew, rechew the food. But you aren’t one.

Do you finish a book if you read the same page over and over again?

“NO!”

That’s exactly what you’re doing.

You’ve to move on.

The book of life, needs you to turn the pages.

“All you have to do is to pay attention; lessons always arrive when you are ready, and if you can read the signs, you will learn everything you need to know in order to take the next step.”

Paulo Coelho, The Zahir

✨Don’t binge to distract.

No. You don’t have to kill yourself slowly by over eating.

Trying to distract yourself through eating junk is going to cost you a lot more than heartbreak.

Go for a walk, go to a pet adoption center - there are many things.

Treat yourself right!

✨Best time to shed your skin

When someone’s snub hits you hard, you’ll be angry and sad at the same time.

The good part? That anger in you can fuel your transformation

You need to look better. You need to be healthier.

You need to chart out a new you coz you're all you got!

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass; it's about learning to dance in the rain." ~Vivian Greene

✨Time passes on, ALWAYS!

Remember the time of your worst embarrassment or deepest of sorrows?

You thought how’s this going to go? And here you are that time is now a past!

Similarly, no matter what situation you’re in now, the time will eventually pass freeing you for better.

✨Creative solace

Best of art comes from the deepest of sentiments.

Have you tried picking up a canvas? Or may be making music on Audiotool?

Poetry, story writing, video editing - it could be anything.

See what your creative genius has in store for you. Your next BIG thing!

"When the finish line seems too far away, remember how you felt when you were back at the starting line. Regain that motivation to recharge your momentum.”

Toni Sorenson

✨Forgive

You know the easiest way to let go of something? Not by being bitter for sure.

You let it go by accepting that it is what it is.

That this was what was destined.

You did everything you could and that’s what was in your control.

don’t be a barrier - let it go!

✨Cheers to the new beginning

Whoever has gone, is gone - making space for someone new. Someone better. And who knows, the person you end up may be the soulmate?

Never lose hope - buckle up and rise.

You’re one with immense potential!

I believe in your dreams!

“Most people are stronger than they know. They just forget to believe in it sometimes.”

Keith Scott

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