Putting perpetrators in the picture: This new Briefing Paper (4p) on domestic and sexual violence from the QUT Centre for Justice, by Michael Flood and Lula Dembele, calls for reframing how this violence is understood, measured, & addressed. research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-jus…@DLulabele 1/9
Too often, domestic and sexual violence are framed as passive and perpetrator-free: “A man killed a woman” becomes “A woman was killed by a man” becomes “A woman was killed”. “John raped Mary” becomes “Mary was raped by John” becomes “Mary was raped”. 2/9
Even some prevention language, e.g. “Preventing violence before it occurs” is passive, and again perpetrators and perpetration are invisible. Yet violence involves agency: a person uses violence against another person. 3/9
How domestic and sexual violence are framed: If we do not name the agents of violence, then: 1) We do not hold perpetrators accountable. 2) We do not hold communities responsible. 3) We do not address the drivers of perpetration. 4/9
Perpetrators are *made*, not born. If we want to stop making perpetrators, we have to change the social conditions and settings which produce them. Primary prevention involves addressing the drivers of perpetration (and victimisation). ourwatch.org.au/change-the-sto…@OurWatchAus 5/9
So: Keep perpetrators and perpetration in view. Name their active use of violence. “When John raped Mary.” And on prevention, refer to preventing the perpetration of domestic and sexual violence. Preventing violence before it is perpetrated. 6/9
How domestic and sexual violence is measured: We report only on how many women were assaulted last year, not on how many men assaulted women last year. Existing data on domestic and family violence and sexual violence focuses on victimisation, neglecting perpetration. 7/9
How domestic and sexual violence are prevented & reduced: If we don’t know how many people are perpetrating DV and SV and how they are perpetrating it, how can we prevent it? If we don’t know the conditions and contexts for the perpetration of violence, how can we prevent it? 8/9
If we do not put perpetrators and perpetration in the picture, we miss the opportunity to describe what is taking place, hold perpetrators accountable, examine the social conditions that make that use of violence possible, and address these conditions. research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-jus… 9/9
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Feminist activism and scholarship in resisting and responding to gender-based abuse: We owe feminist activists and scholars a debt of gratitude, for identifying men’s violence against women as a social problem and for building community and legal responses to it. 1/5
Feminist advocacy, often by women of colour and/or lesbians, has had a series of successes. It has named a variety of forms of violence against women, and expanded recognition of perpetrators’ tactics (e.g. of coercive control) and means of perpetration (e.g. cyberstalking). 2/5
Feminist activism has had profound impacts on both community and legal system responses. There is still much room for improvement. There is backlash, resistance and victim-blaming among police, court officials such as judges, etc. And feminist debates over law and the state. 3/5
Privilege: Can be defined as “systematically conferred advantages individuals enjoy by virtue of their membership in dominant groups with access to resources and institutional power that are beyond the common advantages of marginalised citizens” xyonline.net/sites/xyonline… 1/6
Three features of privilege. Privilege typically is a) invisible, b) normalised, and c) based on a sense of entitlement among privileged groups. Journal article by Bob Pease and Michael Flood (2006), in full text at xyonline.net/sites/xyonline… 2/6
Privilege: a) Invisible: Members of privileged groups have an ‘unmarked status’. Unlikely to be aware of how others don’t have access to the benefits they receive, and thus unlikely to acknowledge the experiences of those who are marginalised. xyonline.net/sites/xyonline… 3/6
Boys, pornography, and sexual violence: A multi-country European study finds that young men who use porn regularly are more likely than other young men to perpetrate sexual violence (Stanley et al. 2018). Survey of 4,564 young people aged 14 to 17 in five European countries. 1/4
Boys were far more likely than girls to regularly watch pornography. Among boys, regularly watching pornography was associated with increased probability of being a perpetrator of sexual coercion. 2/4
Asked if they regularly watched online porn, the following proportions agreed: 44% of boys & 8% of girls in Bulgaria, 59% of boys & 3% of girls in Cyprus, 39% of boys & 3% of girls in England, 44% of boys & 5% of girls in Italy, and 48% of boys & 6% of girls in Norway. 3/4
Healthy masculinity? What qualities are part of a positive, healthy, ethical alternative to the forms of patriarchal masculinity that sustain gender inequalities and limit men’s and boys’ own lives? First, some background on masculinity… 1/16
‘Masculinity’ refers to the meanings given to be being male and the social organisation of boys’ and men’s lives and relations. So masculinity is part of identities, behaviours, interaction, peer cultures, media, and the formal and informal workings of institutions. 2/16
This definition of masculinity is open-ended. In any context, some versions of masculinity will be dominant – the most influential, given the most status. And these may be healthy or unhealthy, positive or negative. 3/16
How to Make Your Marriage Gayer: Many heterosexual couples would have happier and more satisfying marriages if they took a few lessons from their same-sex counterparts. nytimes.com/2020/02/13/opi… 1/5
Sharing domestic tasks is "an increasingly important component of marital stability, and lack of sharing an increasingly powerful predictor of conflict. […] the happiest and most sexually satisfied couples are now those who divide housework and child care the most equally.” 2/5
Compared to heterosexual couples, same-sex couples divide tasks less according to gender stereotypes, and are more likely to share the routine tasks. 3/5
The Poison of Male Incivility: The degradation and dismissal of women — as disgusting, crazy, infantile, incompetent, irrational, and stupid — has been key to the building and maintenance of disproportionately male power in American political, economic, social, & sexual life 1/4
Powerful men’s “reduction of their would-be female peers — their ideological and electoral adversaries and competitors for power — has helped clear away potential impediment to their own professional trajectories.” 2/4
But this white male opportunism, whether in the form of aggressive insults or simple acceptance of systemic advantages that broad systemic disrespect of others affords them, is rarely examined as the kind of active force that it has always been. 3/4