SENSITIVE GIVING IS LINKED TO UNUSUAL BREAKTHROUGHS (PART 4)
It is that time of the year that people celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ, rejoice, and exchange gifts. It is also when people remember the poor and the less privileged.
Many around the world will have unusual breakthroughs through sensitive greetings. Do not look at anyone as not needing gifts. Do not think that that person is fine and you don’t need to sow into their lives.
Covid-19 has damaged a lot of people and families financially. Many rich men and women have become poor. Many churches are struggling financially. Businesses are collapsing. Many have lost their jobs and are in debt.
So, financial gifts to those you are led to give to will not be out of place.
I will tell you a touching story. In December 2002, I had just started pastoring a branch of our former church where I served for 15 years. I was working as a lawyer but that month,
I had no income. I was driving a nice Mercedes car and I was dressing well. No one remembered my family in the church except one member who gave me £100.00. It was as if I was given £1000,00. That was all we (my wife, myself and three young children).
relied on that Christmas, a very hard one. So, remember that your pastor as he may be struggling but cannot beg you for a gift.
By being sensitive, you may have unusual breakthroughs like those we read about in the Bible. Remember, your parents, brothers, sisters,
mentors and friends in need. It may not be much and you cannot give to everyone but your little gifts will go a long way. God richly bless you.
Dele Olawanle is my name. To be continued in the New Year.
Many people are becoming apathetic when it comes to going to church both in Africa and the Western World since Covid-19 started. It has created future problems for many families and potential families. Let me explain.
Marriages do not suddenly break down. It starts little by little before it explodes. Children do not just misbehave or join gangs but it starts little by little. I have found in six decades on the earth that attending church serves a lot of purposes.
If you are humble and obedient, it will save your marriage. Words will come from the pulpit. Counseling will come from the pastor or some church members. Couples will behave themselves. The word of God control our lives. There will be also be early intervention.
The government’s policy of asking British Citizens and residents to stay in isolation for 10 days when they have been doubly vaccinated and have shown a negative PCR result is a stupid policy. I saw hundreds of innocent residents crying at Nigerian airports. @BorisJohnson and the
health Secretary should review the policy quickly. I am a Solicitor who works with many UK-residents on immigration matters, many of them cannot save up £2000 in 3 years. It is that bad. To ask them to pay that much unexpectedly rather than ask them to quarantine at home is
simply inhumane. I was on a BA flight from Lagos and a plane that was supposed to take 318 people took just 23 people. Many who wanted to pay for hotels cannot get bookings as directed. Young children are stranded. It was a gory sight to behold. The protection of the
As a young man aged 17, someone took a bag I thought had become mine from me. I got very angry and was so sad. My late mother looked at me and said “Why are you angry? It does not belong to you.
Pray that God should give you something you can call your own”. Even my illiterate mother knew something about the power of ownership.
From that point, my life changed. I started working to get what I can call my own: My own money, my own car,
my own business, my own investment, my own family house and something for my family.That was why I went for a degree after having two young children. Even when I started the ministry, I made sure the church gets a building of its own that we can call our place of worship,
It is very important as a parent to be interested in your children’s welfare, education and friends. I will write on the latter now.
Apart from the grace of God, one of the things that helped me in life is my choice of friends.
I came from a poor family and helpers were very few. I was raised by a single mother and so she was very particular on my choice of friends. She was very forceful at separating me from those she thought were going nowhere. Believe me, she got it right 💯.
One day she visited me at my primary school and saw me playing with some school mates. I was 10 years old. She knew their parents. On getting home, she sat me down and said “Do you not have children of rich people to move with? The friend of the poor will be poor.
Understand that loyalty is part of the tools for greatness especially when using people for professional services. People like lawyers, doctors, accountants, IT Specialists or regular customers. I have seen that if you are a good and loyal client,
that professional person can help you in several ways beyond your imagination.
Over the years as a lawyer, I have helped several people to fulfill destiny: maritally, career wise, business wise and in the area of investments.
I have also benefitted immensely from my relationship with some clients.
Stop jumping from one person to the other. I have published seven books. I used the same man to help me. I will not move to another person just because I will save £500.00.
There is nothing wrong with being foolish but it is wrong to die a fool. When you hear some men talk or read something they wrote, you will marvel at their depth of wisdom but they were once foolish men. They were once demonstrably foolish.
But as time went on, they learnt from their mistakes and decided to make amends. They were men who learnt from their experience. That is why I love Paul the Apostle’s writings.
I show you a mystery, there is no wise man or wise woman anywhere.
We all have an element of foolishness in us. What you have are men and women who learnt from their negative experience but many of them will not share their experience with you. Many African leaders are like that. They will talk and behave as if they have always been wise.