Before we go into discussion on this topic, let us define what "fucking a woman good" means. This means to bring a woman to orgasm. This is different based on the woman. Some women can orgasm quickly while others take a while to orgasm.
Does a man need to worry about bringing a woman to orgasm? First. Why would a man care about bringing a woman to orgasm? Most guys on Twitter will talk about "Fucking a woman good" in order to secure her loyalty. This thinking comes from a place of fear of loss.
I grew up in a violent atmosphere which created various nervous disorders. One disorder was how my speech was affected. My speech was fast, my thoughts would trail off and my voice was higher pitch.
The reason a man's speech is fast is the same reason a dog eats his food fast. It comes from fear. The fear of not being heard or listened to. The fear of being cut off by other dominant voices. And so, a man will spill himself out quickly from that anxiety.
When I was unframed growing up. I would listen to sensitive music and would moralize the experience. And I believed that women would like my sensitive side and would appreciate my sensitive tastes. Brutal sounding music offended me lyrically and musically.
Music has a big impact on our emotions. For example, as a teen I would listen to grunge which has nihilistic lyrics with sad melodies. And this fueled my own boyhood angst and fueled my depression state of mind. Sad music encourages sadness.
What does it mean to break a heart? It means to trample on what has been given in vulnerability and to betray a sacred trust. A heart breaks from multiple reasons but the main causes are emotional sensitivity and emotional dependency.
A little about me. I married my first kiss. My naivety was guarded by her shared naivety. It was a protection against any ache for experience in my spirit. We were both inexperienced and loyal. In a way this was God's protection.
Before we begin a discussion on why women are emotionally drawn to jerky men, we must define what "Jerk" means. To "Jerk someone around" means to treat someone in an unfair way in business. It is unfair treatment that creates indignation.
What is most precious to a woman? Her emotions. And second most precious? Gaining attention over her emotions. What makes a woman feel emotion? Provocation and indignation. This is why women love soap operas where there is constant flow of indignation over dramatic characters.
Many men are thinking why women would hate male speech when women encourage men that "Express is best"- This thread will discuss this phenomenon in detail. We judge not women's words but what they reward through action. This is masculine frame.
Why do we speak? To make inner selves known to others. Why? Two main reasons. One is either through rational discourse to adjust our reasoning with another (Masculine) And the other is for emotional validation of our inner state (Feminine)