Why death metal is good for frame.

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When I was unframed growing up. I would listen to sensitive music and would moralize the experience. And I believed that women would like my sensitive side and would appreciate my sensitive tastes. Brutal sounding music offended me lyrically and musically.
Music has a big impact on our emotions. For example, as a teen I would listen to grunge which has nihilistic lyrics with sad melodies. And this fueled my own boyhood angst and fueled my depression state of mind. Sad music encourages sadness.
What many sensitive men do not realize is that the music that incites emotion in them also will incite emotion in their women. And a woman always thinks about mystery. And the mystery is not in the room. It is outside the room. Women will emotionally fantasize about other men.
This is something sensitive men do not realize as they are listening to emotionally charged music with their women. That their women are fantasizing about other men. Sensitive music creates a spirit of cuckoldry around a man without him realizing it. He is fueling it himself.
Opposites attract. A woman is sensitive by nature and is attracted to that opposite. That is why a sensitive guy who surrounds his woman with sensitive media is fueling her desire for the opposite. The strong silent type at her work will consume her thoughts.
When my heart broke. I started to listen to death metal. At first, it deeply offended my feminine frame and sounded too brutal. But the brutality itself was the truest feeling I felt and so I continued to listen. And it desensitized my emotions and soon grew on me.
Listening to death metal was as if meditating under a war drum. The brutality of the sound soon calmed me, and it helped me to cleanse myself of the "Sensitive guy" music that had previously weakened me. And there was something in death metal that only can be understood by men
Death metal is one of the few genres of music that women will tolerate (If a man shows no nerves listening to it, his woman will accept the noise) But she will not want to listen to it on her own. Women do not adopt death metal like other forms.
This "Sounds of beastly war" would lower my heart rate and would calm me into my masculine. Before writing The Wall Speaks, I would listen to Tomb Mold's "Beg for life" on repeat in the commute to work and would feel a recreation in my spirit. I was a goddamn man.
Death metal is a shit test to the ears. And the more a man desensitizes himself to it the calmer to noisy shit test he becomes. Listening to death metal becomes a therapy for the masculine soul. A unique experience of triumph beyond the emotionally weak music that surrounded us.
Listening to death metal should not incite anger. That is the beginner state. With frame practice, it should only lower emotion and create a feeling of calm or elation of triumph. Angry guys listening to metal need more frame practice. Lower the anger and become calm in battle.
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