Before we begin a discussion on why women are emotionally drawn to jerky men, we must define what "Jerk" means. To "Jerk someone around" means to treat someone in an unfair way in business. It is unfair treatment that creates indignation.
What is most precious to a woman? Her emotions. And second most precious? Gaining attention over her emotions. What makes a woman feel emotion? Provocation and indignation. This is why women love soap operas where there is constant flow of indignation over dramatic characters.
We call this "Pearl clutching" -- A woman judges those involved in drama while living vicariously through them in emotion. Women seek to be emotionally provoked because women seek to spike their emotional states for fun.
This is the key to understanding why women jerky men. These men provoke their emotional indignation, and this spikes their emotions. But an unframed man will think "They spike negative emotions" -- To them I say, "All publicity is good publicity".
How can negative emotion be a positive? Because a woman will think about a jerk more than a nice guy and this means that she is mentally investing herself with the jerk. He provoked her emotions and created a drama for her.
Besides emotion, what was the second thing women love? Attention. And who gets attention? Women with jerks. This solves two cravings in a woman's heart. That is why women go back to the same jerk over and over. He is a drug dealer to the feminine desire.
There is no growth without provocation. We provoke muscles to grow them just as we provoke women to get them to love us. Everyday women cheat on nice and boring men. These men are clueless to feminine desire. We provoke women's emotions because we love women. Being "Nice" is not
Since women love jerks. This is one reason why men should never be saviors to women in domestic affairs. It is foreplay and a man is just getting in the middle of sex. Remember, the woman will go back to the guy after you "Save her" -- Mind your business.
What does it mean to break a heart? It means to trample on what has been given in vulnerability and to betray a sacred trust. A heart breaks from multiple reasons but the main causes are emotional sensitivity and emotional dependency.
A little about me. I married my first kiss. My naivety was guarded by her shared naivety. It was a protection against any ache for experience in my spirit. We were both inexperienced and loyal. In a way this was God's protection.
Many men are thinking why women would hate male speech when women encourage men that "Express is best"- This thread will discuss this phenomenon in detail. We judge not women's words but what they reward through action. This is masculine frame.
Why do we speak? To make inner selves known to others. Why? Two main reasons. One is either through rational discourse to adjust our reasoning with another (Masculine) And the other is for emotional validation of our inner state (Feminine)
This one will be a deep dive. Before we discuss why women encourage men to be nice guys, let us define "niceness"-- The dictionary definition is "Pleasant, agreeable; satisfactory"-- Let us know break each of those apart in explanation.
What are examples of pleasantry? A soft breeze. An uneventful day. Gentle waves rolling to shore. No confrontation that disturbs. Replace the word "Pleasant" for "Passive" -- Women want men to be passive.
Before we begin a discussion on polarity in a sexual sense, we must define what it means. Polarity used means opposition but in attraction as in magnetism. Two different positions that stand apart and yet are pulled together as in feminine to masculine.
An explanation of masculine/feminine polarity requires us to define the differences between male and female. A woman is biologically more vulnerable than a man due to her hormonal monthly shifting and incapacity during pregnancy. This is the base point we can think upon.
Before we go into discussion in the topic. Let us define romance. Romance is to inspire a deep feeling in a woman in the form of "Love" or high emotion which pulls her into sexual orbit. That is why we separate a romantic relationship from friendships. Sex and high emotion.
Many men will think that my message of frame is too rigid, and that softness brings greater benefit to a relationship with a woman. What benefit? Emotional attachment and sexual arousal. But does a romantic guy inspire those two elements better than a framed man?
What hurts men more, promiscuity or porn consumption?
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When we are discussing promiscuity versus porn, we must speak about damage to men and women together. What is good for men is good for women and what is good for women is good for men. Therefore, while one may be more damaging to one, we must take them both together.
Why should we care about women in our tribe? Because we are framed men and that means we are responsible for all women. All women in reality are our responsibility. Many immature and weak men will deny or reject this. Redpill gurus refuse this grand and global responsibility.