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Feb 2 13 tweets 2 min read
You’ve been conditioned to see happiness as something to chase, rather than something you can create.

Here are 3 hard truths that will change your perspective on happiness (no. 3 will shock you)...
1 - Stop chasing happiness

The danger of obsessively seeking happiness externally is that it makes you vulnerable to harmful vices, mimetic desires, and self-induced mental illnesses.
Drugs, stimulants & depressants are popular because everyone’s desperate to get a dose of happiness by any means necessary; but that’s just unhappiness on makeup.
Worrying about happiness is a sure way to remain unhappy.

You build muscles by progressively overloading on weights, you build happiness by gradually pushing the boundaries of your capabilities.

Happiness, love & passion aren’t things you find, they are choices you make.
2 - You aren’t unhappy, you just have poor emotional control.

Inner peace is the gentler and more stable form of happiness.

The most effective way to create consistent happiness is to master the art of equanimity.
All human emotions are ephemeral -

When you cling to sadness, you prolong your suffering unduly. When you try cling to happiness, you’ll suffer when it inevitably disappears.
People are known to do stupid things when overly excited - like driving under the influence of alcohol.

They also do ridiculous things when overly depressed - like committing suicide.
Stoicism isn’t about becoming emotionless. It’s the art of being detached from ephemeral emotions, with the deep understanding that everything passes. Reaching this level of maturity helps you maintain good judgment at all times.
3 - You don’t really want to be happy.

Shocking right?

The unspoken truth is that you are only as happy as you permit yourself to be in every moment.

It’s not the situations that distress you, but your perceptions and attitude towards them.
Happiness is intrinsic, and you expose it by removing ALL the conditions you have placed on it.

If you really want to be happy, why not Now?
You may think you have to wait for that perfect person, job or vacation to be happy - but you’ll only ever attract these things when you are in a more vibrant state of being. This is because unhappiness makes you uncreative and ineffective.
Understand that nothing can make you happy forever. So permit yourself to be happy unconditionally for only 5 minutes - no buts, no whens, no ifs.

Gradually increase that time every single day - In a year you will have mastered hacking your own bliss...
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Feb 4
9 STOIC PRINCIPLES EVERY MAN MUST LIVE BY TO BE GREAT
To begin, here are 4 important values you must possess;

1) Virtue: Stoic virtues can be further classified into four tenets;

Wisdom, courage, justice and moderation.
Wisdom:- eloquence, resourcefulness, sound judgment.

Justice:- Honesty, equity, understanding.

Courage:- Perseverance, confidence, fearlessness.

Moderation:- discipline, balance, self-control.

These are absolute prerequisites for attaining peak Manliness.
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Q: “How to meditate and get it right?”

Marv: Meditation requires no technique, so there’s no way to get it wrong.

Read on...
Meditation is not a mission, so you must be willing to let go of any desired results.

Your mind will find this difficult to accept because it is always trying label everything or to achieve something.
Effortlessness is counterintuitive to the mind’s programming (which is why it’s the only way out of the maze).

Any technique you employ to subdue the mind will only agitate it.
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Nov 18, 2021
A man of presence must cultivate discipline in these areas

- His diet
- His speech
- His motives
- His sexuality
- His social circle / media

They are non-negotiables if you must fully awaken...
Diet -

Eat to satiate hunger, not to dissipate emotions. Develop emotional control instead

Minimize inflammatory foods

Consume more foods that are natural & lively (fruits, vegetables, nuts)
Sexuality

Avoid porn, it destroys your physical & mental integrity.

Be energy sensitive, every intercourse is a memory download.
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Oct 20, 2021
Most people are selfish with money - when they should be more selfish with their time, energy & attention...
Never allow anyone waste your time, including yourself!

Time is the very fabric that life is made of.

Consequently - if you value your life, you’ll value your time.
70% of your time should be spent doing meaningful work.

20% should be spent on hobbies that make you smarter, happier, healthier, richer or more socia.

10% should be spent on trivial things.

Employ these two mental models to become time conscious;
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Sep 24, 2021
Dear Lucilius,

You need these traits to succeed in life; Image
1 - Inner balance

Trees develop deep roots so that they can attain great heights.

Traits of inner balance:

> At ease
> No anxiety
> Deep patience
> Uncompetitiveness

You must be mentally stable, this game’s not for the weak.
2 - Direction

You must make time to self-introspect & discover your true calling.

Following trends only lead to dead ends - don’t go too far before realizing you went the wrong way.
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Sep 17, 2021
For most people -

The wisdom of old age is gained when the energy of their youth is gone.

It’s more efficient to learn from the experiences of others, rather than relying on the trial & error of yours.
Read extensively

And read books that directly oppose your paradigm & currently held beliefs

You can only improve your discernment & logical reasoning when you allow contradictory ideas to stimulate your mind.
If you only read the books that everyone else is reading, you’ll think the same way everyone does

And if you think like everyone else, you aren’t thinking at all!
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