They were her first two children or shall we say her first two living children
She gave birth to the first in 1950
She birthed the second in 1957
In between them, she had three children but they were all still births
For the first child, she went to the local herbalist to check
His future
She was told he would be poor and mostly unsuccessful in life
The second child however was revealed to be the rich one
The blessed one
Her husband was a believer, he loved all his children
She didn’t tell him what she discovered when she went to consult the runes of
fortune
He would be very upset with her for doing such a thing
She really wanted to love the two children equally but she realised she couldn’t
The one that was revealed as poor was blunt, uncontrollable and unyielding
The boy just couldn’t stand her
The second son was more like
her
He was gentle and very dear to her heart
He was exceptionally brilliant too, a mathematics prodigy
The runes were right
The second son was a millionaire by the age of 29
He had studied electrical engineering and gotten a job with NEPA
By the time he was 30, he was married
And Expecting children while his older brother was still struggling to get a degree.
The older one had travelled to Lagos at 13
His father, her husband, decided the favouritism she was showing the younger one was too much and could affect the older one negatively
He sent his son
to live with his younger brother in Lagos
He felt that would give the young boy some balance
Of course, it didn’t
The younger brother’s wife turned the boy to a housemaid and made him attend evening school while he hawked palm oil for her in the morning
He got a job as a clerk at
The railway at 18 and worked his way out of that house
By the time he did evening school and started writing jamb, his younger brother had travelled abroad and built two houses
Just the way the runes predicted
She hated to see it but her husband kept working hard to support the
Unfortunate son
He would give anything to support this son to achieve the next thing in life which for him were so effortful and in her opinion was like flogging a dead horse
At 40 this son got a first degree and was advised to proceed to M.Sc
He did
To pay his
fees, his father sold three of his big goats and a ram
His mother almost had an apoplectic shock
Somehow he did it
Slow and steady but he got a PhD at 47
His father was proud of him
His mother didn’t know what the big deal was (She was a non-literate) and saw little value in
Education
He got married at 48
His younger one already had two teenagers by this time
He had taken it slowly and it had paid off
He started working as a lecturer with a federal university
He started travelling abroad, living the good life
His mother still didn’t see anything
good in him
She would say to whoever cared to hear it that “Her one and true son was the prodigy and the other was was Simeon who came to slave in this world
The younger son lost his job
He was arrested by a govt agency because he got involved in some illegal deals
He was thrown
In jail for two years
His mother cried over and over again
When the second son was eventually released from prison he had lost everything
The job, the fame, the money, the houses
The older brother continued to wax stronger in life, career and marriage
In that two years while his
brother was imprisoned the older one had built his first house and settled down to life in a glorious way
But he didn’t forget the things his mother said to him
Her words cut him to the quick all the time
A few years later, their father died
He recalled the days of suffering and
How his father held on to him to in his passing moment
He decided he would do something great to immortalise his father
He raised some money and decided to build a public library
His mother and siblings came around for the launch
I she.
The event started
He told his story
Thanked God for all that he had seen and said “His father was the best
His mother became uncomfortable with the flowery talk
She said “You brought your father to live by your words and I could as well be dead”
He tried to explain to her that it was not intended to be that way
He just wanted to celebrate his father
His mother was livid
She refused to greet him or accept his gifts
When the ground breaking for the project was over, his younger brother sent him a message asking why he treated their mother so disparagingly
His younger brother said “That is
The greatest woman that we will ever have as our mother
Be grateful”
He laughed
He understood what his younger brother was saying
He saw one side of their mother while he was shown the other
In his opinion
PS: The runes we’re world, the rejected stone became the chief corner
stone
This woman backed the wrong candidate to succeed and even though he did, it didn’t last
It is the blessing of the older one that the entire family is depending on
Rather than apologise, the woman is claiming the son is an ingrate for not treating her like the best mother
In the world
The younger brother is also angry that his older brother is not treating their mother like the best mother in the world
He sent his older brother a message a few days ago via WhatsApp
The brother got offended and wrote the younger brother a letter reminding him of
how their mother treated him like a slave while she showered all her love on him.
He said he had been giving her monthly allowance and ensuring she is comfortable but he wouldn’t pretend she was what she was not.
The younger brother called the brother in Jeans and T-shirt.
He didn’t want his mother to be sad over the issue and he knew his brother was upset
A meeting was called and the Holy Spirit stepped into the matter
The mother told the story and apologised for believing the runes
The older son forgave his mother and the three of them met the
Holy Spirit.
(Their father had died in 2002, at that time the older brother was still poor
He said they didn’t even give him a canopy to host his friends when his father died because he couldn’t contribute enough money!)
The Holy Spirit took over and all the hatchets were buried!
A couple came to the Abuja hangout yesterday, the lady spoke for the guy. She said he had applied for visa several times without any success, she said he is very intelligent and has a very great potential but his life has been stagnant
She said she met him at a library and they
had a very deep discussion
She said she was blown away by his depth and knowledge
The guy was quiet
He didn’t say a word, he was just looking at me
I also listened very silently as the lady stated that she wanted him to prosper and measure up in life
I turned to the guy, I smiled
I said “You’re sleeping with her, even though you know she is married with three children. One of the children is even yours and you are aware of this
You are also friends with her husband, not a close friend but he knows who you are and you are acquaintances
The guy sat there
You must know the word of God!
A man said he is a servant of God, he met a lady named “Nyang” meaning river
He said the woman is having difficulty getting married because of this name because the name means river!
He said his sister has the same name and as a result couldn’t get
Married
He said unless the lady has a child outside of wedlock she will never be a mother!
This sort of prophecy is not from God!
There is another couple, a so called prophecy of God said “Unless another woman is pregnant for your husband you will never have children
Wow!
Hmmmm!
He faithful husband of this woman began to sleep with other women apart from his wife as a result of this
His woman came crying to me, stating that her husband was cheating
I spoke with the husband and believe me, the husband said he was cheating to help his wife so that she can
Let me say this boldly, when you’re with a woman on the same bed, even if she is naked, don’t assume she is willing to sleep with you.
If she allowed you touch those sensitive parts and even open her legs for your fingers to roam, if she says “stop”
It doesn’t matter if she is
Your wife, babe or girlfriend!
It doesn’t matter if she is your side chick or your side hen, even if she got paid to get on your bed, my brother, PLEASE, stop!
It may be painful, especially if you have done the do in your mind
She might seem like an ingrate, if you have spent so
Much money or used all your wits to get her to even be on that bed with you
You may feel hurt, used, abused or cockteased!
Don’t teach her a lesson, don’t do anything, just let her be!
You’re asking if it is that easy, hmmm
Let me tell you the alternative!
If you go ahead and
The hypocrisy of this generation is galling, we are blaming teenagers for going into rituals and voodoo in order to make money
We are blaming their parents
We are crying foul
We are removing ourselves from the equation
As if we were not the ones who opened pandora's box
That's
very funny
Who made money the ultimate thing in life?
Was it not this generation?
Who started and glorified the "yahoo yahoo" fraud?
Was it not this generation?
Was it not Oluwhatever that sang Yahooze, wasn't the song the DJ's favorite during the last presidential campaign
The generation before us prioritized education
Of course, there were ritualists and fraudsters but most of them tried the legal route first and waited to have a break until they lost faith in their late 20s/ early thirties and turned to crime
In fact, most of the early fraudsters
Some years ago, I was walking my then girlfriend home around Mobil bus stop, close to Agbowo/Orogun in Ibadan.
It had rained relentlessly for many days and the road was flooded.
There was a narrow path that was dry, the path can only take one person at once
This guy, tall huge
guy, and his babe were walking towards us
Myself and my babe got to that dry path first.
My babe went ahead and I followed her, expecting the couple opposite us to wait.
This guy’s babe didn’t wait she walked straight towards us, my babe had reached the other end by this time and
I was a few steps away
This lady charged at me, I dodged to the left to give her some room
She crossed
I also crossed
I got to the other side, her boyfriend gave me a dirty slap
He said when I passed by her babe my hand touched her bum bum
Omoh!
I was 5 ‘11 in height and I looked
After sleeping with many people, something happens to you as a person.
Something happens to your heart
Something happens to your ability to feel right
Your essence, your core is reprogrammed against feeling the right thing
No matter what your reason for sleeping around is
No matter the artificial and material benefits you got
Regardless of whether you are forced or do this willingly
Your soul begins to cry out loud inside your core
You begin to dislike yourself, to develop a distaste for life
You begin to resent the image you see in the mirror
You begin to crave a community of your kind, to prevent yourself from drowning
You find yourself unable to keep the company of decent friends and people
You see them as hypocrites whose judgment you cannot bear
You want to mingle with those with who you share a common history