The myth of survivor solidarity: Why it’s so hard for victim-survivors of violence to all just get along. By Louise Godbold @Godbold
culturico.com/2022/01/10/the… 1/4
For victim-survivors of violence who seek to stand together against injustice and abuse, the traumatising impacts of that violence can push them apart. Solidarity among survivors is valuable, but we must also understand how trauma makes it hard. 2/4
Trauma generates typical psychological and physical responses, conditioned responses, incuding: Emotional dysregulation. E.g., being quick to anger or offence. Dichotomous thinking. Enemy images. Empty frame of aggression. 3/4
Understanding these trauma responses is empowering. Victim-survivors can choose compassion for themselves and others. “When that happens, we are an unstoppable force […] And that should make the abusers and their enablers really nervous.” 4/4

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Feb 16
An Epidemic of Disbelief
This feature article in The Atlantic highlights US police’s large-scale neglect of rape kits and their pervasive disbelief of rape victims (July 2019)
theatlantic.com/magazine/archi… 1/7
“in 49 out of every 50 rape cases, the alleged assailant goes free - often, we now know, to assault again. Which means that rape - more than murder, more than robbery or assault - is by far the easiest violent crime to get away with.” 2/7
Police efforts regarding rape victims: police rarely took notes, didn’t contact the victim, and rarely sent rape kits to lab for testing. But when this was discovered, and police units finally to begin processing these, they indicted large numbers of rapists in cold cases. 3/7
Read 7 tweets
Feb 15
Young, Male and Anti-Feminist – The Gen Z Boys Who Hate Women.
Substantial proportions of young men have anti-feminist beliefs. and there’s a young male backlash. This piece describes this as increasing (but is there longitudinal data?). vice.com/en/article/dyv… @vice 1/4
Some young men participate in women-hating online forums and gaming communities, and there’s a seeming increase in boys’ and young men’s adherence to and promotion of anti-feminist claims, at least online. 2/4
In her book ‘Men Who Hate Women’, Laura Bates writes of boys of 11 and 12 entering anti-feminist communities, recruited by older men through gaming. Such involvements also can inspire other forms of prejudice, e.g. racism. 3/4
Read 4 tweets
Jan 12
Men who perpetrate domestic and sexual violence are *made*, not born. Their use of violence is the unsurprising outcome of widespread social conditions. They use violence not because of some hardwired disposition but because of the gendered norms and inequalities around them. 1/4
The violence that some men use is the predictable result of the lessons about manhood they absorb as they grow up, the sexist peer cultures in which they participate, and the gender inequalities & other conditions that are woven into their everyday lives. 2/4
So if we want to stop making perpetrators, we have to change the social conditions which produce them. That is what primary prevention is: changing the cultural, and material, and structural conditions which drive violence. To prevent initial perpetration & victimisation. 3/4
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Jan 3
Feminism: is a movement aimed at ending patriarchal power structures and social norms, not a mere celebration of ‘choice’. By Dr Meagan Tyler. 1/6
theconversation.com/no-feminism-is…
Women make choices, yes, but these are shaped by wider social conditions. Choices are hollow when structural conditions and cultural norms are highly limiting.
A choice-focused pseudo-feminism doesn’t demand real social change, and it undermines calls for collective action. 2/6
“Instead of resistance, we now have activities that were once held up as archetypes of women’s subordinate status being presented as liberating personal choices.” 3/6
Read 6 tweets
Jan 2
Regret, distress, low self-esteem: Why today’s hook-up culture is a terrible deal for women
By Louise Perry. 1/5
newstatesman.com/politics/2021/… @Louise_m_perry
Louise Perry note that, on average, men desire casual sex more than women do, and hook-up culture is one solution. Women are encouraged to close the gap by imitating male sexuality, having sex “like a man”. Some women like this, but for many it’s unpleasant, even distressing. 2/5
Studies find that following hook-ups, women are more likely than men to experience regret, low self-esteem and mental distress. Nevertheless, a youthful period of hooking up is now the norm. 3/5
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Dec 29, 2021
The problem with how men perceive rape
splinternews.com/the-problem-wi…
By Lux Alptraum, 2016 @LuxAlptraum 1/11
The problematic idea “that sex can be divided into two broad categories: capital R Rape (which is monstrous, criminal and should be severely punished by the legal system) and normal, chill sex, which is obviously consensual and with which no woman should ever have a problem" 2/11
"But missing from this dichotomy are the scores of “not rape” violations, and acts that might best be described as “sexual microaggressions”—small acts of boundary-pushing and coercion that might be easy enough to brush off in isolation, but in aggregate teach women that..." 3/11
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