Is it reasonable for parents to prefer that their children speak the same language as them vs. some other language?

Is it reasonable for parents to prefer that their children learn to enjoy the kinds of food the parent enjoys?
Answer options here are "Yes, duh" or "I'm actually do not have a brain." Those are literally the only options, there is no middle ground.
Regardless of what may be efficient or useful for a child, it is entirely reasonable for parents to prefer that their children develop in ways which are comprehensible to the parent. Other concerns might motivate caveats or deviations, but the question is about the reasonability
Of *parental preferences*, desires, not questions on how far they ought to go to implement those desires.

If you think it is somehow unreasonable for parents to desire homophily with their kids, then I just don't see any way we can ever have a rational conversation together.
just so much ignorant seethe from people who have never actually dealt with the reality of their child literally being unable to speak to them like an adult.
as it happens, i actually want the opposite of this:

i want spanish-speaking parents to get tax dollars to put their kids in primarily spanish-speaking schools, if they so choose!
but gonna block that person anyways, though they were a nice foil

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Feb 18
I think this is wrong. There will never be a surprise attack, because Russia's strategy rests on an overpowering aerial assault, electronic warfare, massive bombardment, etc. Russia cannot actually afford to take huge losses of ground troops.
So literally no matter when Russia attacks, it would have to be presaged by huge accumulation of troops and equipment and considerable action prior to crossing the border.

Key to remember that Ukraine's military actually has more men than Russia has available to invade.
And to provide that invasion force, Russia has basically stripped the districts east of the Urals of almost their entire military force. If somebody wanted to make a move on Siberia or whatever, now would be the time.
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Feb 17
Cogent article from @akarlin0 on why he thinks Russia will invade and win rather easily.

A few qualms with it though. To the extent season matters, the thaw already came: it's been above freezing and raining in Kharkiv for days! akarlin.substack.com/p/regathering-…
The slushy above-freezing rain is forecast to continue at least until this coming Tuesday, and there is no forecast yet for a return to below-freezing daytime highs. i.e. Russia has already lost the window for hard-frozen ground.
That said, it's not clear how much this actually matters, since as @akarlin0 notes, given Putin's pretty strong aversion to reporting casualties, Russia would likely try to use longer-range weapons as much as possible so they can roll into uncontested positions.
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Feb 17
So apropos my controversial thread of the past few days, many commenters have claimed that I'm being bigoted because I'm worried a schoolteacher mentioning homosexuality will turn my kid gay.

Obviously, this is not at all what I believe.
But I think there are some people who do worry about that scenario.... and there are also people on the other side who believe *so deeply* in the immutable nature of sexuality that they make similarly implausible arguments.
So first of all, it's important to just empirically demonstrate that sexual identity is not perfectly static. Here's a nice longitudinal study looking only at adults in the US between 1996 and 2006, so it isn't "young people discovering their sexuality." link.springer.com/article/10.100…
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Feb 17
I enjoyed helping with this piece for @NCRegister about pets and fertility.

The question here is: do pets replace kids? Or, relatedly, is pet-mania contributing to low fertility?

I argue the answer is mostly no, but occasionally yes. ncregister.com/news/pets-repl…
So to start with, let me note something striking.

Pets are a huge part of many peoples' lives. We spend money on them, we care about them, etc. Human-animal relations writ large are kind of a massive field of human social life and crucial for understanding human society.
And yet, even though shifts related to animal domestication and husbandry are key elements in the rise of settled human life, virtually no social surveys included any questions about animals until very recently. GSS added a pet question in *2018*.
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Feb 17
Russia has 6 neighbors west of the Caspian sea which are formerly communist states.

2 have joined NATO.

1 has essentially permitted permanent Russian occupation (Belarus).

1 is Azerbaijan.

The other two have been invaded by Russia.
Oh I guess if you include the Konigsberg chunk they have 8 neighbors, and 4 have joined NATO.
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Feb 17
Interesting-- looks like the shelling by the separatists was more intense than I realized. Significant artillery strikes all along the line.

This is exactly what the South Ossetians did to try to goad Georgia in 2008.
Also, QUICK REMINDER:

The 2008 Georgian war WAS DURING THE BEIJING OLYMPICS.
I'm not saying that Beijing hosting Olympics is the causal agent of Russian aggression, but I'm saying that for the sake of world peace, precaution suggests we should never let China host the Olympics ever again.
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