If you have recently been diagnosed with #HIV, please know these things.
Your life is not over.
You can still be healthy.
You can still have children. And grandchildren.
You can still have loving relationships and great, uninhibited sex (these may come hand in hand... or not).
When we are on effective treatment there is absolutely NO RISK of #HIV being passed on to our sex partners - even without condoms or PrEP.
So we can have great, fearless sex.
We call this Undetectable means Untransmittable or #UequalsU.
“Women living with #HIV can have children just like anyone else. You can conceive naturally, you can give birth naturally and you can have HIV-negative babies.” @sashaishere88 on being a mother.
HIV changed, tell everyone. #UequalsU
If we are diagnosed promptly and have secure access to #HIV treatment we should live about as long as someone who does not have HIV.
Some studies suggest we may even live a little longer!
HIV changed. Tell everyone.
For 35 years @aidsmap has provided information for people living with, or concerned about, #HIV.
Visit our site for news and information about HIV treatment, prevention and support - including #UequalsU. #NAMat35 aidsmap.com/about-hiv
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Yesterday I picked up my #HIV meds for the next 6 months.
I’ve been on treatment since 2003.
I now take 3 pills a day (some people take fewer).
These prevent me from getting ill.
They also mean I can’t pass HIV on during sex (#UequalsU).
HIV has changed. Tell everyone.
#UequalsU stands for Undetectable means Untransmittable.
When #HIV is suppressed by treatment to undetectable levels there is NO RISK AT ALL of passing it on during sex.
How awesome is that?
HIV changed. Tell everyone.
With access to effective treatment, people with #HIV should now live about as long as people who do not have HIV.
Pic: me, at 54, after 24 years living with diagnosed HIV - and 19 years on treatment, this week.
HIV changed. Tell everyone. aidsmap.com/about-hiv/life…
When we were dying of AIDS, James Anderton described gay men as 'swirling around in a cesspit of their own making.'
He was emblematic of the policing that led many gay men to view the Police as hostile, so crimes against us went unreported.
It's hard to forgive.
TW - rape.
In 1989 I was beaten and raped while in a gay bar.
I don’t talk about this often because it’s painful.
The thought of reporting this to the Police was instantly dismissed, despite physical evidence.
I did not believe I would be treated with sympathy or fairness.
Even now, I think I made the right, the only choice for my wellbeing.
It haunts me that the man who raped me may have gone on to more such acts.
1000s of crimes against #LGBTQ people went unreported because of clear police hostility towards us.
That’s James Anderton’s legacy.