Why not indeed. It's a complex issue and as many state under the OP's tweet, the threats disclosure might pose to the individual are a big risk. I agree, it should first be made safe for everyone to be able to disclose without the fear of being mistreated, harrassed, or worse. 1/
https://twitter.com/AutisticDoctor/status/1578475487990411264
Why did I then disclose being autistic and ADHDer? Because I personally am in a safe place. I understand my privilege, and in a way I feel it's my "duty" to add visibility, and that way hopefully help others to feel more safe. 2/
I'm privileged in that A) I'm already at a career stage where it's hard to try belittle me. I know I'm protected by my colleagues and by my "status" in the community.
B) I generally have a support network that further protects me both mentally and financially. 3/
B) I generally have a support network that further protects me both mentally and financially. 3/
C) I'm lucky enough to be healthy and mentally in a good place. In other words I don't have comorbities/severe trauma that would make the situation worse for me.
For these reasons I disclosed, and talk about this openly to anyone who wants to ask. And it has already paid back. 4/
For these reasons I disclosed, and talk about this openly to anyone who wants to ask. And it has already paid back. 4/
Multiple ppl have come to me asking advice and/or thanked me for being open and thus making autism, ADHD, and neurodiversity more visible. If I can help even one person who's struggling, it's worth it, even if I get some shit sometimes (very rarely, fortunately). 5/
I was so happy when during my lecture a student noticed my stickers and said "I really like your stickers, especially the cat" (autisticat). I don't know their background, nor I need to know, but if they are ND, I hope this made them feel safe and that they're not alone❤️ 6/ 
I know some might take all of this as pretentious behavior, but it actually just highlights how little they understand the autistic mind. 7/
Another reason for disclosure was self-protection, because after 37 years of living as an autistic (without realizing it until recently), I'm fed up with trying to hide or diminish my real self. However, it's the privilege that enabled me to make this choice. I have options, 8/
and I fully understand everyone who don't yet feel safe enough to disclose. I'm trying to fight for a better world from my privileged space. 9/
That said, my door is always open for anyone who wants to know more or wishes to talk in an ND safe space. Pop in my office to have a talk (back in Finland in December) or DM/email me. 10/10 #ActuallyAutistic #ADHD
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