As a woman, how do you establish your family on solid foundations and fortify it in these difficult times ❓
Our prophet ﷺ provides the answer in this hadith narrated by Bukhari and Muslim: ...
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"The best [Arab] women … are the pious women of Quraish, for they are the most affectionate to small children and the most careful of what belongs to their husbands."
Two traits could place you among the best of women: ...
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1. Being affectionate and compassionate towards your children; satisfying them emotionally, and establishing strong relationships with them. Thus, they will learn from you how to love Allah and His messenger ﷺ, and how to exalt Allah and his religion.
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This protects them from seeking emotional fulfillment through Haram (unlawful) means.
2. Being careful with your husband's money/property:
This helps the family live within a limited income source. It also protects the family from enslavement, whether to ...
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...the new world order and its puppets or their jobs and positions. It helps channel their energy and efforts into beneficial output, including self-improvement, learning their religion, Dawah (calling to Allaah), and fighting against corruption.
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🍃 A hadith of very few words…yet with profound meanings!
To those who seek to become among the best of women: integrate this hadith into your life.
And then you have the dogs preaching to you about 'human rights,' enforcing laws under the guise of protecting women and children, and so on.
In yet another crime yesterday morning: a five-story building was bombed in the Beit Lahia project, in northern Gaza, housing ..
..200 Muslims, including residents and displaced people.
100 bodies have been recovered—may Allah accept them as martyrs—while about 100 others remain missing.
The image shows how our brothers’ bodies are being transported, with animals scarce, many having died from ...
...starvation or bombing.
Keep these pictures in your memories and on your devices, and show them to your children so that they know the truth about the dogs who claim humanity and then all conspire against our people in Gaza.
Brother Hussein Miftar used to live with his family in #Sweden. He was a proactive, beloved, and influential individual.
About 6 years ago, the Swedish social services kidnapped his four children, a girl and three boys. There was no apparent reason for the abduction except..
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..the "religious upbringing" according to the statements of his friend, Mahmoud Aldbai.
Hussein strove earnestly to retrieve his children but to no avail.
His children loved him and were attached to him; they ran away from the social services in order to go back to him,..
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...but the social services kidnapped them once again.
One of his sons said in an interview: "My father never hit us, not even once, nor did he even raise a hand against us. Rather, he took dialoguing as an approach"
One of the common mistakes when dealing with young men who are about to hit puberty - or sometimes even those who already reached puberty - is being addressed by their non-mahram female relatives and female teachers as if they are still kids;
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While bearing in mind the strong reservations about young men having female teachers in the first place, which is another topic altogether.
You see a young man of 13 or 14 years of age, who might have already reached puberty, yet his female teacher or his mother's friend..
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.. calls him "Sweetheart" out of "kindness"!
Respected ones, we shouldn't address young men like kids!
Everything around them undermines their intellect and weakens their sense of responsibility; from their upbringing, to the "education" system which turns them into..
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Some parents give their children whatever they desire and lavishly bestow on them materialistic things thinking: "Take what you want and just let me be"!
The father/mother occupy themselves with work and fulfilling their ambitions, and in their free time occupy..
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..themselves with relationships with friends, social media and whatever else the parents find more enjoyment in than raising children.
He is busy, but he loves his son and is ‘concerned' for him... He expresses his love and ‘care’ through gifts and material luxuries.
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My son asks me for something that is not in his best interest... To explain to him why, convince him, and provide him with the right alternative... is a difficult and "boring" process and the child is obstinate...
So take what you want, son... I will buy from you..
A child disobeys his father, so his father punishes him. The sad kid goes to the corner and sits silently not knowing what to do to appease his father.
The father knows how painful it is for the child to feel deprived..
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..of his father's compassion, and not have the proper means to formulate an apology and get back into his father's arms. A feeling so heavy where the child feels lost even if he is a few steps away from the father.
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The father, by his mercy and compassion, doesn't like seeing his child in such a state. So he asks the mother to go and tell the child: "go and apologize to your father, tell him that you are sorry, you will not do that again, and that you ask for his forgiveness”.
The wife: He doesn't show me any affection; I feel estranged from him.
The husband: I work day and night in order to provide Halal sustenance for her and her children; there's no time left over to pay attention to her emotions/feelings.
🔑 The solution: ...
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"There is certainly for you in the Messenger of Allah an excellent example" (Qur'an translated meanings 33:21)
No one is busier or more preoccupied than the Prophet ﷺ was, yet he taught us that the solution lies in the quality time we spend with our spouses and at home.
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Here are some actions which don't take anything from your time, yet they demonstrate your love and help to maintain mercy between husband and wife:
I. The Prophet ﷺ said: "There is nothing you spend seeking Allah's pleasure except that you shall get a reward for it, ..